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ShowerGel Sun 04-Jan-15 09:49:15

Hi to all -
after splitting from my not-so-DH this time last year, I have taken the decision to have a holiday abroad (to Malta), which is happening in a couple of weeks time. I have flown by myself before but I am feeling a bit cautious about arriving and then having to get a taxi to take me to my destination.
I am staying in a hotel on half-board terms, for a week, so again not troubled about catering.
I intend to visit a couple of places (I like art so I am hoping to see a Carravagio whilst I am there) and I believe there is a winter bus service that I can use.
Any advice about lone female travelling would be welcome - I'm in my early 60s- plus anything on Malta would be welcome.
Many thanks,
ShowerGel

nannieroz111 Sun 15-Mar-15 11:25:49

Lots of good information and brave GN's on this thread. Thanks. All I need to find now is the courage to "go it alone" blush

ginny Sun 15-Mar-15 09:08:07

Glad you had a good time and now you have taken the plunge I hope you will have many more happy holidays.

loopylou Sun 15-Mar-15 07:13:10

Well done! Good to hear you enjoyed yourself, here's to the next trip smile

Coolgran65 Sat 14-Mar-15 23:24:36

Whoop whoop..... wonderful to hear from you and that all went well. Your first toe dip.....
Thank's for coming back and telling us..... it's likely that this may be encouraging for others.

Now you can confidently plan your next trip smile

ShowerGel Sat 14-Mar-15 22:48:53

Hi all - ages since I logged onto the site. Bet you all thought I'd gone to Malta and then got lost grin.
Truth is I took all of your advice and as a result had an okay time.
I caught the bus from the airport, buying a weekly ticket, which served me for additional travel whilst I was there.
It was 20c on the day of arrival - it dipped to around 15c on other days and there were a couple of brief spells of rain but too brief to bother about.
I took a loaded TravelCard but didn't spend much money so I came back with nearly as much on the card.
At the hotel the food was plentiful and there were several Brits on their own. One man started a conversation with me and he became the person with whom I had a chat with most evenings. (He did give me his address and phone details but he isn't my type - too much whiskey imbibing - that is what I walked away from in my marriage).
I had a real sense of achievement (and a bit of a sun tan) when I returned home. I'd like to go back again, as I know there is plenty more to see there.
Have been busy with events and stuff since returning, so I apologise for the delay in posting.
Thank you for your guidance - it certainly helped me.
sunshine

Ariadne Wed 14-Jan-15 13:44:53

Enjoy every minute!

loopylou Wed 14-Jan-15 12:43:03

Have a wonderful time! Looking forward to hearing all about your holiday x

ShowerGel Wed 14-Jan-15 12:41:40

Just to say I have taken your advice on the Travelcard - my Post Office was able to dispense it immediately and I activated it the following day.
I am packing and just getting everything together. My Son-in-Law is driving me to the airport and his father will pick me up next week, on my return.
Many, many thanks to you all.
If I enjoy the experience it will open up endless possibilities ....

Tresco Mon 05-Jan-15 23:28:16

If you like historical novels, there's a fantastic one called The Disorderly Knights, set on Malta. It's part of a series by Dorothy Dunnett, but not in print(Library) People either absolutely love her novels or find them too complicated. You can tell which camp I'm in.smile

ShowerGel Mon 05-Jan-15 23:07:01

Thanks for all the advice - I am getting quite excited now! I'll have to check out those prepaid cards; they sound like a good thing to have.

Tresco Mon 05-Jan-15 23:00:19

You can use a Travelcash card (there are others, but that's the one I use) where you can load money on to it before you go then use it as a debit card - withdraw cash and pay for items. The advantage for me is that mine is an all-currency one, so I can load it with pounds and pay in any currency. But there are just Euro ones. That way you don't need to pay credit card fees for withdrawing cash if you need to. I also have the Halifax Clarity card, which is good for purchases.
I am sure you enjoy yourself. Bon voyage!

trisher Mon 05-Jan-15 22:47:02

I've never been to Malta but have travelled alone for some time. I find people are amazingly helpful, especially if you chat to them. I had a fantastic driver who took me from the airport to my hotel in Sorrento and stopped en-route so I could do some photos of the great views. (and it was a set price so he wasn't charging!). I always take books to read when I am relaxing- they are conversation starters and also a way of not having to talk when you want to be quiet. I love sight seeing and visiting museums and art galleries alone because I can spend as long as I want looking at things without someone asking when we are going home/for coffee/to swim! Plan your days but be flexible because if you find you are really enjoying somewhere you can spend as much time as you like there. Hotel staff and local people in shops etc are just as worth chatting to as fellow hotel guests because they know all the best places and deals. Carry some cash but there are ATMs everywhere. Read all the holiday reps folders in your hotel to see what they recommend doing, they are usually in a corner, on a shelf somewhere. Have fun and enjoy your freedom!

georgiejg Mon 05-Jan-15 22:21:39

Solo and Just You do holidays for one person if you fancy company.

Coolgran65 Mon 05-Jan-15 18:13:24

Bugibba and Qawra (where I stayed) are practically the same place. 5 minutes walk.

There is a bus station in Bugibba/Qawra, airport bus goes to it regularly.
Our hotel (San Antonio Health & Spa) was beside the bus station.
You will find the airport bus brilliant for various sightseeing.
For some sights you will have to go into Valetta and get another bus.
All very easy to follow.

The No. 12 goes along the coast from Bugibba to Valetta bus station, in October it took ages but nothing we could do about it. Not far distance just heavy traffic and roadworks. Sit back and enjoy.
In Valetta, to get back to Bugibba, you can take the 12 along the coast, or the airport bus which goes inland via the airport and Mdina.

Get a tourist travel book of the island, it often tells you what bus to take etc.

And check on Google Earth where your hotel is in location to the Bugibba bus station. What time of day will you arrive at the airport, and then in Bugibba. On google maps/earth You can check your route from the bus station to your hotel.
How far is it, will you be able to walk it with your luggage. Pavements aren't great. I'm also in mid 60s and made sure I had constant foot comfort.
Or you can get a taxi at Bugibba bus station to take you the short distance to your hotel.

The Aquarium which is in the area on the sea front is worth a visit.

The area itself has a lot of bars and clubs (at least it did in October) but we pretty much stuck to the evening entertainment in our hotel. ................ ok if you don't expect star material.

Stansgran Mon 05-Jan-15 17:42:11

Most places have ATMs these days. Get a Santander. Zero card or a Halifax Clarity card which are good to use abroad or load up a cash card from the post office. Take enough Euros to sort out drink or sandwich on arrival in case of delays and for buying bus pass.

ShowerGel Mon 05-Jan-15 14:43:17

I've bought a guide book today so I now know what number (and colour) of bus to find at the airport. I should be arriving at lunchtime so it shouldn't be problematic.

Next question - how much money to take? I am not a shopper - postcards are usually my only haul when on holiday. I will only be buying lunch and drinks and will be going to a few sights, if they are open. (I'll draw up a list once I've read a bit of the guide book).

rubylady Sun 04-Jan-15 18:20:48

I suggest taking the hotel number with you wherever you go, just in case. Could you get a personal alarm for extra safety? I wouldn't just get any taxi from the airport, get one from either the hotel reception or from the travel agency. I would try to chat to many people, some might be stuffy but most will be glad of conversation. I've chatted to many different people on my holidays, one elderly gent on a bench in a Disney park in Florida. We had a lovely long chat and I still remember him to this day, 15 years later. Besides, chatting to others can take you in other directions, find new places you hadn't thought of to visit etc. I hope you have a wonderful time and we will all be waiting to hear how it went, have fun. smile

Galen Sun 04-Jan-15 17:11:43

I holiday alone as well.

Mishap Sun 04-Jan-15 17:06:38

My friend who is disabled and lives alone also holidays alone and indeed spent Christmas in Mexico. She says that people are very helpful and she has had no problems over the many years that she has been doing this. So....go girl!

Stansgran Sun 04-Jan-15 16:19:29

Phone the hotel and ask if the airport bus stops close to them . If not ask ,as Vega has said ,if they could arrange a taxi for you if you are landing late night. They may say they have a hotel transfer available.

ShowerGel Sun 04-Jan-15 14:59:43

I will be based in Bugibba. I hadn't thought about a bus from the airport - makes sense. And thanks for the tips on the weekly ticket.
I can recall the 'bus queues' when I once visited what is now Slovenia - as you say, just head for the door.

Coolgran65 Sun 04-Jan-15 14:27:21

I was in Malta last October. I Stayed in qawra, north of valetta. Buses frequent and cheap. A weekly ticket 6.5 Euro.
What area are you staying in. Airport bus is cheap and covers several routes...could save a taxi fare on arrival. Actually it would be covered by your 6.50 weekly ticket. We used the airport bus regularly to get to the sights like Mdina,( the silent city), and the craft village.
Wouldn't recommend the red or blue moneymaking island hop on hop off buses. They are about 17 Euro for the day....regular buses are much better. Plenty of English speakers everywhere. Didn't meet anyone who didn't speak English.

Just go for it.... if you are ever stuck you can get a taxi. But we never got stuck.

Just be aware that there are many roadworks and a journey takes longer than anticipated. Also forget bus queues. When the bus arrives....your aim is to get on!!

Charleygirl Sun 04-Jan-15 13:31:57

It is many years since I visited Malta but everybody spoke English. The people were very friendly and helpful. We had a great time there.

tiggypiro Sun 04-Jan-15 13:21:53

Hello ShowerGel. I have recently spent time on Gozo (a smaller island just north of Malta) so would recommend a trip there. My time in Malta was limited and confined to Valletta but it was very walkable (if rather hilly and lots of steps) and it is a very interesting place. Mdina was somewhere I would have gone if I had had more time. I would try and get away from the hotel fringe north of Valletta.
You are right about the buses. The bus service is excellent and very cheap - a day ticket is 1.50 euros and I think a weekly ticket even cheaper. There is a very helpful bus information office at the terminus in Valletta.There is also a bus service from the airport but of course it depends on where your hotel is as to whether it is convenient (and also how much luggage you have). I would feel safe travelling on my own in Malta - the people are helpful and friendly.
Have a lovely time.

Galen Sun 04-Jan-15 13:17:58

Bellasnonna is the expert. She lives there.