Sorry, I need to rant !!

Thanks kitty. Hope thinks are calm with you and yours.
Trouble is spermie is now friends with Bob's ex so he's involved too.

anno she didn't inform the police ( though I think she's intimated it to them previously) It was the letting agent for the property DD and Bob are living in she rang.
DD ex must have given her the contact number.

If only annodomini - police and social workers get so many, sometimes entirely malicious, reports like this during acrimonious separations.

Surely if this person has informed the police falsely that 'Bob' is growing weed, he could be charged with wasting police time.

What your DD should do is log absolutely everything that happens and call the police any time she feels threatened!

I don't know how I missed this thread nina but just wanted to say that you don't deserve this as well as your Idiot. What are these people thinking - oh, they're not!!

Just for clarification - all this is a bit confusing. Is Bob actually growing weed in the attic?

I'm so sorry this is happening to your family. It sounds like the ex's family can't accept that Bob chose to leave her and are trying to intimidate him as a form of revenge. I can understand why your DD and Bob want to move but it's a shame that these people can get away with making them do that.

Exactly WIWYA. At the beginning I said it was childish but it's gone up a notch now

Oh dear nina. Why do people have to behave like this? for you.

Not sure the police can do anything about slander, think that might have to be a civil case but they can deal with harassment and this sounds like what is happening.

It really surprises me that people can be so horrible, I never realised this until recently when we started getting similar things happen to us. What do they hope to achieve? Sad people