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Childhood Revisited

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HollyDaze Thu 26-Jun-14 15:04:49

How many of you can relate to the following as being representative of your childhood:

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According to today's regulators and bureaucrats, those of us who were kids in the 50s, 60s, 70s and early 80s, probably shouldn't have survived because:

Our baby cots were covered with brightly coloured lead-based paint with was promptly chewed and licked.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles or latches on doors or cabinets and it was fine to play with pans.

When we rode our bikes, we wore no helmets, just flip flops and fluorescent 'clackers' on our wheels.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the passenger seat was a treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle – tasted the same.

We ate dripping sandwiches, bread and butter pudding and drank fizzy pop with sugar in it but we were never overweight because we were always outside playing.

We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle or can and no-one actually died from this.

We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps and then went top speed down the hill, only to find we forgot the brakes.

After running into stinging nettles a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we got back before it got dark. No one was able to reach us all day and no-one minded.

We did not have Playstations or X-Boxes, no video games at all. No 99 channels on TV, no videotape movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no personal computers, no internet chat rooms. We had friends – we went outside and found them.

We played elastics and street rounders, and sometimes that ball really hurt.

We fell out of trees, got cut and broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits. They were accidents. We learnt not to do the same thing again.

We had fights, punched each other hard and got black and blue – we learned to get over it.

We walked to friend's homes.

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate live stuff and although we were told it would happen, we did not have very many eyes out, nor did the live stuff live inside us forever.

We rode bikes in packs of 7 and wore our coats by only the hood.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law. Imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem-solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility – and we learned how to deal with it all.

And you're one of them. Congratulations - you had the luck to grow up as real kids before lawyers and government regulated our lives, for our own good.

For those who aren't old enough, thought you might like to read about us.

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How many felt uncomfortable as they read it? Has today's conditioning worked on you?

rosequartz Thu 03-Jul-14 00:02:21

New skin - it was awful. Supposed to keep cuts clean without plasters, but it stung like mad. I hated it but DF thought it was better and more hygienic than plasters until I protested so much that we reverted to plasters

rosequartz Thu 03-Jul-14 00:03:41

shock have just googled it and they still sell it!

hildajenniJ Thu 03-Jul-14 09:04:53

I also went shopping with my mother and two sisters to buy new dresses, with bows at the back, and sometimes smocking on the bodice, for our Sunday School Anniversary. Ialso remember the taste of the orange juice from the clinic. We didn't have a tv until I was seven. I use to visit my Granny's house on a Tuesday to watch Andy Pandy on theirs which my grandad bought for the Queen's coronation. Not many people had a tv where we lived so my Grandad's house was packed with neighbours that day.
We had a coal fire in the sitting room and a solid fuel rayburn in the kitchen. No central heating. I hated wearing my liberty bodice because all the little rubber buttons showed through whatever else you wore.

Mishap Thu 03-Jul-14 09:57:44

My Dad bought our first TV the day AFTER the coronation, because he realised it would be cheaper then - you now know all there is to know about my Dad!! "Waste not, want not" was his motto, and whilst I now applaud the sentiment, I felt at the time that I never ever wanted to hear it again!! I still can't throw anything away, and, when they were little, my children knew how to wind me up by wasting food!

One of my memories has just been triggered by a friend bringing me some wonderful sweet peas from her garden. When I was little we used to go to my Grand parents' house by the sea where they lived in a lovely house with a stream at the bottom of the garden.There was a vegetable garden with trellises bearing sweet peas all around it and little paths. My brother used to push me in a wheelbarrow round the paths and we would brush against the sweet peas as we went and get drenched in the scent. Wonderful!

rosequartz Thu 03-Jul-14 21:35:39

My DF used to grow sweet peas, and I saw some lovely ones at a garden we visited today.
We have one flower on ours so far this year!

We had a tv for the Coronation and all the neighbours crowded into our front room to watch.