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HollyDaze Thu 26-Jun-14 15:04:49

How many of you can relate to the following as being representative of your childhood:

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According to today's regulators and bureaucrats, those of us who were kids in the 50s, 60s, 70s and early 80s, probably shouldn't have survived because:

Our baby cots were covered with brightly coloured lead-based paint with was promptly chewed and licked.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles or latches on doors or cabinets and it was fine to play with pans.

When we rode our bikes, we wore no helmets, just flip flops and fluorescent 'clackers' on our wheels.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the passenger seat was a treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle – tasted the same.

We ate dripping sandwiches, bread and butter pudding and drank fizzy pop with sugar in it but we were never overweight because we were always outside playing.

We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle or can and no-one actually died from this.

We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps and then went top speed down the hill, only to find we forgot the brakes.

After running into stinging nettles a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we got back before it got dark. No one was able to reach us all day and no-one minded.

We did not have Playstations or X-Boxes, no video games at all. No 99 channels on TV, no videotape movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no personal computers, no internet chat rooms. We had friends – we went outside and found them.

We played elastics and street rounders, and sometimes that ball really hurt.

We fell out of trees, got cut and broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits. They were accidents. We learnt not to do the same thing again.

We had fights, punched each other hard and got black and blue – we learned to get over it.

We walked to friend's homes.

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate live stuff and although we were told it would happen, we did not have very many eyes out, nor did the live stuff live inside us forever.

We rode bikes in packs of 7 and wore our coats by only the hood.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law. Imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem-solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility – and we learned how to deal with it all.

And you're one of them. Congratulations - you had the luck to grow up as real kids before lawyers and government regulated our lives, for our own good.

For those who aren't old enough, thought you might like to read about us.

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How many felt uncomfortable as they read it? Has today's conditioning worked on you?

ninathenana Thu 26-Jun-14 17:48:37

rosequartz my dad cut the toes off my sandals too !

I used to have to get the bus too and from school by myself at 7 as mum worked. I would call next-door when I got home and the neighbour would use her key to let me in.

rosequartz Thu 26-Jun-14 17:53:43

Sherbert is powder and comes in a tube withna liquorice dipper.

I think Kali is just sugar crystals with some very sour lemon flavouring, comes by the ounce (!) in a paper bag, you tip it into the palm of your hand and lick it from there. The colouring (oh dear, it gets worse) leaves your hand and tongue bright yellow.

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 17:56:24

Sounds like what we used to call rainbow crystals, but it came in different colours (though I think sort of layered in the big jar in the shop). We used to dip our forefinger in it and lick it - yes, the flavours were very acidic!

rosequartz Thu 26-Jun-14 17:58:41

Ours was just bright yellow. I probably lived in a deprived area, we didn't have a car either so couldn't sit in the back without a seatbelt.

sunseeker Thu 26-Jun-14 17:58:43

Playing marbles in the gutter. Building a bonfire from any spare wood we could find in the middle of a side road for 5th November, baking potatoes in it and having a box of fireworks which we set off ourselves

Watching Mum make toffee apples and being impatient for the toffee to cool enough to eat them.

Group of us going off for a walk across the fields and not getting back home until we got hungry and nobody worried, we knew not to talk to strangers and we all looked out for each other.

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 17:59:33

An enterprising sweet shop owner near us when we were kids used to add water to kali and sell it as a drink for a penny. It was awful but we still used to buy it after the Saturday morning matinee at the pictures!

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 18:02:05

All these memories! We used to build bonfires too and make a Guy and take him out in an old pushchair to get pennies. Oooo and toffee apples. smile

sparkygran Thu 26-Jun-14 18:45:44

What a joy to read all about my childhood Norvic Kiltie Glamma rings a bell and no flip flops. There was a farm next to my house and I was out from dawn till dusk and we played in the fields, the hay loft up rickity ladders and as others have said if you fell out of a tree you just picked yourself up and carried on - oh happy days.

Also my Daddy used to cut the toes out of my sandels to make them last all summer and I was never allowed to go into my summer clothes until "May was out" which in our house meant June

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 19:18:46

My friend had a pair of skates with ball bearings in the wheels. She would let me wear the right one as she could manage on her left. Then we started watching the tap dancing lessons in a room at our church hall and acquired a pair of tap shoes. I wore the right tap shoe, her the left. To this day, I can perform tap movements with only my right foot! grin

We had whips and tops and would decorate the tops with coloured chalks. We played marbles into a well, scraped in the ground, hopscotch with shoe polish tins, stilts with National Dried milk tins and string and skipping with mum's old washing line.

For Whit Week, we had new white sandals which my mum would whiten and leave on top of the dustbin lid in the sunshine to dry, then it was off out in my dad's bike and sidecar to visit grandmother, four children squeezed into the sidecar and mum on the pillion. For a week in Blackpool, suitcases went in the middle!

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 19:22:21

Whips and tops??? I thought those went out in the early 1900s! shock

(Seriously...I never heard of anyone having those in my childhood, and I'm not that much younger than you, when)

Ariadne Thu 26-Jun-14 19:30:45

I had whips and tops - I was born in 1946. There are two tiles of tops, but the most difficult one was a mushroom shape and I never mastered it. My mother thought it was all a bit common. (If you have read anything I have said about my mother, you will know that "common" was her watchword.) and I could never make those pretty patterns on my tops.

BTW, weren't whips and tops seasonal? Can'T remember when the came out each year, though.

Oh yes, Clarks' sandals in the summer, and brown bar shoes in the winter. But not knee sacks because they were.....???

MiniMouse Thu 26-Jun-14 19:35:55

Ariadne you've just reminded me that at my school we were allowed to wear short white socks in the summer, but not knee length ones because girls 'who frequented coffee bars' wore them!!! grin

annodomini Thu 26-Jun-14 19:55:28

I didn't know flip-flops existed until I went to work in Africa in 1965, after which I wore them much of the time. Clark's sandals were bought during the Easter holidays and eventually we were allowed to wear them without socks and got white T-bars on our feet! We played out on the beach and on the street, tennis without a net and French cricket. We could go anywhere on our bikes. 4 pennorth of chips on the way back from Guides. Pressed button B in the phone box to see if any money came out - very occasionally it did! Every few years yo-yos came into fashion. If we didn't have one, we could raid our mums' button boxes for big buttons to make our own. They worked.

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 20:01:33

Ariadne yes! my mum had a list in her head of what was 'common' such as eating in the street, milk bottle on the table and the worst offence of all - having a fringe! Where she drummed that one up from, I don't know. Needless to say, I do have a fringe.......grin

Gagagran Thu 26-Jun-14 20:25:42

I was born in 1943 and we had whips and tops and chalked coloured patterns on them It was a seasonal thing and alternated with hopscotch with the grid being chalked onto the pavement and a bit of shiny tile used as the puck.

We also did skipping with lots of rhymes and bouncing balls against walls in rhymes too. There were both one and two ball games.

One of my favourites was "Releivio" which was a chasing game. When you were caught you were in prison unless someone not "it" could run and touch you and shout "Releivio".

My Mum was keen on "common" too and she classed red shoes and sandals as common so I was never allowed them. They were boring brown (and how I yearned for red ones) but I did love going to the shoe shop and putting my feet in the x-ray machine so I could see all the bones in my feet. I think they realised there was a danger from the radiation eventually and stopped them being used.

boheminan Thu 26-Jun-14 20:47:28

We didn't have a car but my dad rode a big Norton motorbike (no crash helmet). He made a 'sidecar' for my brother and I to sit in from our old pram - a big black old deep bellied thing. He took the hood off, hammered in a plank for a seat, and somehow attached it to the side of the bike, my brother used to hunch up behind me. We travelled miles, with mum riding pillion (in her flowery cotton dress and white sandals). Apart from the excruciating back ache, we had lovely days out - and all survived to tell the tale!

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 21:18:47

Fantastic, bohemian. I remember my dad taking us all for a picnic in Lyme Park (edge of Peak District) when I was 8. So there were 4 children in the sidecar, 8, 7, 4 and 18 months, plus collie dog, mum on pillion in summery frock and dad driving! grin

numberplease Thu 26-Jun-14 21:33:07

Yes Ariadne, there was a whip and top season, a skipping season, and a marbles season. I used to take the leather thong off new whips and replace them with string, it worked better!

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 21:38:50

Jacks - remember those? I got very good at the game the one summer the craze lasted - school playgrounds are pretty hard on the knees and knuckles though!

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 21:47:58

They still sell them, Ana. I have a set in the children's toy drawer.

www.smartstart-toys.co.uk/puzzling-fun/indoor-games/metal-jacks.html

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 21:50:25

Oh, I think I'll definitely have to get some for my GDs...thanks, when!

Soutra Thu 26-Jun-14 22:04:45

Another facebook " chestnut" I see. Ah well .

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 22:25:33

Not all of us are on facebook, thank goodness! hmm

Anyway, it bears repeating...

Penstemmon Thu 26-Jun-14 22:49:14

I wore Flip Flops as a child & I was born in '51. Made by Bata shoes. probably because I lived in E Africa.

I think there were many good things about 'risk' taking when we were kids and we do not allow enough now..parents hover over kids far more!

I would like to know the statistics of serious injury/death in kids playgrounds with those high slides, witches hat roundabouts, wooden seat swings and un-sprung seesaws all on hard tarmac. Did kids learn more about safety or did high numbers suffer injury?? I don't know.

Also death and permanent damage from polio, scarlet fever, measles etc etc! It was not all rosy!

boheminan Thu 26-Jun-14 22:51:38

I couldn't get the hang of jacks, we played 'dabs' or fivestones in London 50's. I have a photo of me wearing flip-flops in about 1960…they were red rubber and yes, gave painful blisters between my toes