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kittylester Tue 10-Jun-14 10:08:50

I've just answered DH's business line to a young man who proceeded to try to sell me advertising on the screens in our 'main' post office (actually stuffed down at the back of a Hallmark card shop!) When I could get word in edgeways I told him [very politely] that we were snowed under, couldn't cope with the amount of work we were getting and did not want to do any advertising at all and I put the phone down.

I then went back to filling the washer!

We usually get quite a few calls first thing in the morning so I was not surprised when the phone went again. I was surprised, however, to hear the same idiot say 'Actually, I need to speak to the business owner not just the receptionist - what would you know about the state of the business anyway?' angryangry

HildaW Tue 17-Jun-14 12:46:07

Rose.....phew.....was getting worried wink

AAAHappyMan Tue 17-Jun-14 14:50:32

HildaW Tue 17-Jun-14 12:46:07
Rose.....phew.....was getting worried
Pay attention at the back, and don't get yer Rqs mixed up with yer RrRs.
Mr Gove will Academize U if you carry on that way.

HildaW Tue 17-Jun-14 16:55:55

Not sure I like all this heavy handed quoting and time-lining...all seems a bit 'look at me, look at me'....methinks I will avoid conversations that use it from now on.

Soutra Tue 17-Jun-14 17:07:48

A little while I asked at what point this discussion had become so toxic but that post has disappeared! May I repeat the (albeit rhetorical) question?

kittylester Tue 17-Jun-14 17:28:43

Toxic Soutra but also aggressive with all the bold type, as Hilda said. I will avoid these conversations too. Quite angry

rosesarered Tue 17-Jun-14 17:37:23

If the powers that be will allow you Soutra smile

Ana Tue 17-Jun-14 17:45:18

And what's with all the Zs?

rosequartz Tue 17-Jun-14 18:27:49

Rushed in again to answer a call and it was that wine company, which I cancelled a few months ago (you know the one!). However, after reading this thread I may re-order some wine. Exhausting!

I get a nice letter or postcard about twice a week every week from Sky - cancelled over 12 months ago - what a waste of paper. Have sent them back with a message to take me off their list, now ignore them. They must be desperate or have nothing better to do. What a waste of paper and postage.

AAAHappyMan Wed 18-Jun-14 08:42:26

We traditionalists prefer to adhere to the original (Greek) * -ize* spelling, and not join the trendy, Gadarene with their affected (French) -ise spelling.
Here is the OED on the subject:
Concerning the suffix itself, whatever the element to which it is added, is in its origin the Gr. -ιζειν, L. -izāre; and, as the pronunciation is also with z, there is no reason why in English the special French spelling should be followed, in opposition to that which is at once etymological and phonetic.
In this Dictionary the termination is uniformly written -ize.

It is clear that it has always been "accepted practice" in British English to spell such words as -ize, and
if there is any "pedantic" argument to be made, it would be one that accords with the OED and that would say that to spell the words in the French style as -ise should not really be considered correct even in British English!
(Various sources)

annodomini Wed 18-Jun-14 09:36:35

If you stuck to the -ize form, then practise would become practize. However, this is surely a topic for pedants' corner.

Elegran Wed 18-Jun-14 09:39:42

How wize of you, Anno

kittylester Wed 18-Jun-14 09:45:25

grin Elegran

I started this thread as a mild rant about a phone call - I know threads move on but honestly!

rosequartz Wed 18-Jun-14 09:49:00

Tried to get it back on track

confused now.

Someone I know lets it always go to answerphone and only answers those calls they want to - expensive but could be worth it!

Soutra Wed 18-Jun-14 09:50:42

My one thought is that I might enjoy putting such callers in touch with a certain poster and just let them get on with it. hmm

Ana Wed 18-Jun-14 09:51:23

It was HappyMan's use of 'ill advized' which caught my eye - never come across that before!

Ana Wed 18-Jun-14 09:52:43

(Sorry, back on track...)

Soutra Wed 18-Jun-14 09:54:19

I read your question re the zzzzzzz s Ana and thought they referrred to a certain tedium even ennui and maybe losing the will to stay awake if not to live......grin

Ana Wed 18-Jun-14 09:57:22

Well, I did wonder how to frame my query, as zs looks wrong, and zeds does too - was going to put zzzzzzzs but you'd think I'd fallen asleep...grin

kittylester Wed 18-Jun-14 10:10:14

That would be quite understandable in the circumstances Ana grin

Nelliemoser Wed 18-Jun-14 10:19:59

Is it American spellings? They use a lot of "zeds2 where we put S. I had to fiddle my computer on to UK English to stop these dratted z spellings.

rosequartz Wed 18-Jun-14 10:48:36

Soutra grin

zzzzzzzzs we have had a lot of those lately as we have bumble bees nesting in our eaves. And DH snoring gently in the armchair of course.

AAAHappyMan Thu 19-Jun-14 20:25:49

AAAHappyMan Wed 18-Jun-14 08:42:26
We traditionalists prefer to adhere to the original (Greek) -ize spelling, and not join the trendy, Gadarene with their affected (French) -ise spelling.

Ana Thu 19-Jun-14 20:28:49

I think we heard you the first time, AAA. Affected or what? hmm

Deedaa Thu 19-Jun-14 21:36:53

rosequartz I am still getting post for DD from the PDSA. It is forwarded from an address they left about 10 years ago and comes to me in spite of the fact that they haven't lived with us for 9 years! She has written to them many times to tell them about the change of address but still it comes!

grumppa Thu 19-Jun-14 21:51:43

I make no apology for referring AAA to the Shorter Oxford Dictionary, which specifies the z spelling but then quotes Defoe and Swift using the s spelling. If it is good enough for them it's good enough for anyone else.