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What pushes your buttons?

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grannyactivist Mon 19-May-14 18:06:22

I hope that Gransnetters who know me well will recognise my view of myself that I am usually a calm, positive person - not easily given to crossness and negativity. So why am I sitting here doing my impression of being a total crosspatch? Because yes, I do have buttons that when pushed bring out the tigress in me. There are some views that to me are like a red rag to a bull, even when only hinted at. hmm
That got me to wondering - what makes your hackles rise?

Atqui Sun 25-May-14 18:05:07

Thanks ANA !

durhamjen Sun 25-May-14 16:43:08

With regard to the NHS, how many of you knew that GPs have voted last week on whether to look into charging for consultations?
That should have been in the national interest, but hasn't been in the news much. It was reported in Pulse, which is a magazine for healthcare professionals.
Fortunately only 59 GPs were in favour with over 200 against, so we are safe for now.

Ana Sun 25-May-14 16:18:33

no, because you should've used ^^s grin

Atqui Sun 25-May-14 15:59:33

Sorry .. Didn't mean I don't like italics, just trying it out on my I pad, but it didn't work.

Atqui Sun 25-May-14 15:58:19

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Atqui Sun 25-May-14 14:45:08

I hate seeing people lick their fingers when they are eating, especially if they are snacking on greasy crisps while using a shared computer keyboard!!

Atqui Sun 25-May-14 14:42:47

I'm try ing to work that out too! I have visions of GNers rushing to the cutlery drawer to check!!!

rosequartz Sat 24-May-14 23:20:41

Well, I am sure I do too, besottedgran. Although I feel that I must go into the kitchen to check as I can't remember after 60+ years of holding a knife and fork how I hold the fork.

Yes, hands on top. Can't stand to see someone hold a knife like a pen - it was always was the end of a beautiful friendship if a boyfriend did that!

besottedgran Sat 24-May-14 22:49:33

Oh dear suebailey1 I'm afraid I hold my fork like a knife - how else would I do it ?
On the other hand, I don't like seeing a knife held like a pencil !

GadaboutGran Sat 24-May-14 11:27:05

What is it about James Dyson that pushes your buttons suebailey1? I wish I had a few more Dyson buttons to push.

Here's a link on how to deal with buttons that get pushed. I'm sure it will push a few anti West Coast US therapy buttons
www.huffingtonpost.com/christine-hassler/self-help_b_2476642.html

tigger Fri 23-May-14 17:20:33

What is the problem with non-clinical managers?

DebnCreme Fri 23-May-14 11:46:46

I refused to buy quite a good quality bed from a store once because the older assistant called us 'you guys'. Like you Suebailey I told her I was not a guy then left the store. Fortunately we managed to find a better bed for cheaper elsewhere which was a relief, OH would not have forgiven me.

purplehairstreak Fri 23-May-14 11:30:38

Rudeness, rudeness and bad manners - grrrrrrr.

They always push my buttons. Good manners, being helpful and polite doesn't cost anything and it doesn't half make the world a better place and bring smiles to people's faces.

Also drivers who zoom around corners without indicating, just as I'm crossing and thinking they're going to carry on ahead. So - BAD driving and lack of consideration and awareness of pedestrians.

And don't get me started on drivers who swish through puddles in the gutters on rainy days so unfortunate pedestrians get sprayed with dirty rain water.

Enough.

rosequartz Wed 21-May-14 21:41:59

Hard to keep a straight face at times, HollyDaze!

HollyDaze Wed 21-May-14 21:20:53

That would make it more difficult rosequartz - my husband, however, would just up and walk out of a room whilst someone was in the middle of speaking to him if they were boring him! I couldn't go that far but I am happy go glassy eyed grin

rosequartz Wed 21-May-14 19:02:09

That was meant to be four * to denote liar, of course!

rosequartz Wed 21-May-14 19:00:37

Unfortunately we can't walk away from our very own bragger, Hollydaze, he is (nearly) part of the family. Don't see him very often, thank goodness.

Trying to practise my rictus smile whilst inwardly screaming 'you are such a **'

HollyDaze Wed 21-May-14 16:52:51

I didn't think I had many until I read all of the replies and found myself nodding in agreement with most of them!

People who say 'I'm good thanks'

That one I really dislike and always ask 'you are good at what' with a very innocent look on my face.

However, braggers and players of one-upmanship will get me walking away very quickly.

Ana Wed 21-May-14 12:33:07

And so time-consuming, trying to browbeat convince others that their perfectly reasonable views are 'silly'...hmm

rosequartz Wed 21-May-14 12:18:00

[sigh] A large proportion of the population, apparently. Must be very isolating.

durhamjen Tue 20-May-14 23:43:05

People who have silly views.

rosequartz Tue 20-May-14 23:35:19

People who call me 'silly' because they do not agree with my views. Just because they have a different point of view does not mean that they are right nor does it give them the right to call anyone 'silly'.

Silly: definition - having or showing a lack of common sense or judgement; absurd and foolish just because you do not agree with someone else's political point of view!

angry

willsandco Tue 20-May-14 20:52:27

we've had bad neighbours twice and have moved out ourselves because they were annoying everyone and devaluing the property in the street. Some people simply do not have any consideration or any respect for others. It drives me mad! Fortunately, at the moment, neighbours are lovely and we have no problems. Perhaps things wont be so bad when they move back in Hope so. x

grandma60 Tue 20-May-14 18:27:48

The phrase ' I WAS LIKE'. Instead of ' I said'.

dorsetpennt Tue 20-May-14 16:34:00

haha - forgot it is 101