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Nonu Wed 05-Mar-14 20:12:08

Anyone giving out there giving up anything for Lent .
I have decided to give up chocolate & wine .
Wish me luck !!
Laugh !!
smile

chloe1984 Wed 05-Mar-14 20:18:52

I always always try to give up swearing for Lent as I am just too weak to give up chocolate. I have to say I have always relapsed but as ever will keep on trying. I wish you luck Nonu you have more resolve than me. sunshine

carnationa Wed 05-Mar-14 20:25:27

When I was little and we lived abroad, the school I went to was Roman Catholic and the Nuns used to make us save up all of our sweets and then we got to eat them at the end of Lent, it was great.

I have decided to give up crisps

Nonu Wed 05-Mar-14 20:25:57

Chloe
smile x

ninathenana Wed 05-Mar-14 20:27:02

Well I'm certainly not giving up GN grin

MiceElf Wed 05-Mar-14 21:19:01

I'm with Giles Fraser on this one. Not keen on the Lent of cheery self improvement.

Bellasnana Wed 05-Mar-14 21:23:29

I always give up chocolate, cake and biscuits for Lent and it is not easy as I crave sweet stuff hmm

Ana Wed 05-Mar-14 21:26:30

Dismal self-abasement then, MiceElf? hmm

MiceElf Wed 05-Mar-14 21:35:32

No Ana. Love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. Take your pick. It would be hard to accomplish all of them. But it's worth a try.

Mishap Wed 05-Mar-14 21:56:20

Whew!

Ana Wed 05-Mar-14 22:12:35

I thought you had to give up something for Lent? Which one of those are you going for then MiceElf? grin

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 05-Mar-14 22:19:28

I was giving up being non-forebearing with DH. It's gone down the pan already. Sigh!

Soutra Wed 05-Mar-14 22:20:26

I have often thought that taking something up for Lent could be more constructive, whether it be something spiritual like prayer or meditation, or physical (early morning walkies, says Grace, hopefully) or practical as in doing something for others - like practising patience and forbearance when you know somebody regularly gets up your nose?
Maybe simply counting to twenty before re-thinking a sharp retort on GN, Ana?

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 05-Mar-14 22:20:43

Ana grin

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 05-Mar-14 22:21:57

I put an extra e in there. Never mind.

rosequartz Wed 05-Mar-14 22:28:42

Oh dear nonu, I was going to give up chocolate but I forgot and ate some this evening. And it's only Ash Wednesday

carnationa Wed 05-Mar-14 23:21:16

That's a really good thought soutra

Anne58 Wed 05-Mar-14 23:24:22

The way things are chez Phoenix, I think I will be giving up hope sad

carnationa Wed 05-Mar-14 23:30:11

p never give up hope--He who dares wins smile

Dragonfly1 Wed 05-Mar-14 23:32:26

My 5yo DGS tells me he's giving up broccoli.

Eloethan Thu 06-Mar-14 00:09:30

I agree with MiceElf.

It reminds me of politicians who live on benefits for a couple of weeks and then feel very smug about their "achievement".

Surely to strive to be a kinder person, or to do something useful would be far more constructive and meaningful?

MiceElf Thu 06-Mar-14 06:36:00

No one has ever had to to do anything for Lent. For those who choose to mark this season of preparation and repentance in some way, it will be a personal matter and not something to be trumpeted from the rooftops, or on GN. Neither is it appropriate to quiz others about what they might, or might not, be doing unless they have chosen to share with another who could help them to fulfil their intention.

absent Thu 06-Mar-14 06:39:58

I'm not a Christian but I do know something about Christianity. Well said *MiceElf; I salute you.

kittylester Thu 06-Mar-14 07:05:56

Surely people are allowed to talk about if they want to and there is no compulsion to reply confused

(((Hugs))) Phoenix

Aka Thu 06-Mar-14 07:15:28

Perhaps some people could give up being pompous, rude and sycophantic!