I quite like a lurk on MN occasionally - joined when we were trying to find out what had happened to Greatnan, and MNetters were very responsive and helped a lot.
As Mamie says, we are just women at different stages. And I have often bitten my tongue at various stages of teaching and brining up children, thinking to myself "One day you will be where I am." We learn learn as we go, don't we?
I am even beginning, slightly, to understand a bit more about my mother when she was the age I am now, and am so glad I never actually said anything.