Frank, you are a member of the 'elite', or so you told us after completing the BBC class questionnaire, stop being so pinchpenny, go to a M&S or other good quality men's outfitters and buy yourself some decent clothes.
I cannot believe that your daughters are as covetous of your wealth as you make them out to be. They are probably like I was with my father wanting him to indulge himself in anything he wanted that he could afford and would make his life pleasant and not remotely bothered by how much this would cut my inheritance.
Or is this just an excuse for your parsimony.