Just think yourselves lucky you are not obsessives! I love turning out cupboards, understairs, cellars, attics, garages, etc. but there is not on inch of untidied space in my little flat. Still, I do get to do my sister's dark corners for her when I visit. I don't need to do anything for my daughter here in NZ, although I would be happy to help. She is another tidier-upper, but I have noticed that she is not nearly as fussy about this timber bungalow as she was about her elegant Edwardian villa in Yorkshire. A few cobwebs seem acceptable here, amongst the hen food, chick food, cat food, dog food, hay and straw for horse, bags of manure from the stables, dried seeds, garden implements, etc. etc. People are just more relaxed here in every way, and it must be catching! (The weather helps - who wants to clean when it is 26C every day for months and the beach/river/forest/mountains beckon?)