Do you sulk?

I am not a sulker more fiery and like potential rows or disagreements settled quickly and head on. DH takes offence and goes silent, which I see as sulking. Actually as we go on in life together, I try and be less confrontational, and he less sulky. I find it tiring being so reasonable sometimes.

I'm sure there was a thread about this not long ago...
Will have to have a look.

GE

Oh no, it was about husbands and how they sometimes 'stonewall' or sulk.

Ana then this may end up being pretty similar. I must have missed that one.

Just call me 'thread-killer'...

Can we abbreviate that to 'killer'?

Sorry, wrong thread! Just came off the other one

Well at least you are not sulking Ana and Ella - sounds like a girl band!

Nope. I would rather tell someone what I think of them and hopefully move on. Not that that is always a very successful move.

I think sulkers tend to have a bit of a nature, 'it's all about me'. I think sulking keeps a situation going on for longer and hence the sulker is trying to, hopefully in their mind, get the other person to feel guilty. Either that or they are possibly in the wrong and won't admit it and hope the other person caves in and apologises to them.

Slow to burn,quick to cool...can't stand atmospheres and unfinished business,get it out in the open and deal with itxx

I think you have summed that up pretty well POGS. It will be interesting to see if anyone has a different perspective.

Ella, why have you gone black?

Never!

Oh, so have you, anno...

I don't sulk never have but I do like my own space and to be left alone sometime's which some people who don't know me well could mistake for sulking.

Yes, I'm the same, glamma. Not sulking, just recharging the batteries.

No, don't sulk.

I think you have a deep and meaningful type of brain to be able to sulk. I can't do it. #shortmemory

Yes, I went black for very good reasons which I am not going to talk about at the moment. I might go blue again when I have done some editing.

Oh don't say that j07 that would mean I wasted all that time teaching himself not to do it. I have never thought of him as 'deep and meaningful' I'll stick with POGS

No, I don't sulk. Best to say something and clear the air. Besides which, I have difficulty keeping quiet at the best of times!

I think with daughter-in-laws and mother-in-laws it can be down to the younger woman feeling unsure of herself. I seem to remember I did it once or twice when I was very young. My poor mum-in-law! (got on with her very well usually!)

Nah. Never did either. Couldn't be bothered.