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riclorian Fri 05-Aug-11 14:06:45

If under 16s are considered too young for sex , at what age are you considered too old ?

petra Tue 27-Aug-13 20:27:21

I could open a chemist shop with all the ' lotions and potions' I have been prescribed and NOT ONE WORKED. Some of them prescribed by the hospital.
The only thing that worked was an implant ( think it was Tetosterone) and then my hospital stopped doing it!!!

BerylBee Tue 27-Aug-13 21:14:09

Hello All,
Sorry, I'm a new person, and I haven't read all the way back.
Hormones play a big part in this.
After the menopause, many women find that their
oestrogen / testosterone balance is such that their libido just takes off.
Signed
A Promiscuous Tart

soop Wed 28-Aug-13 12:35:35

BB grin

Glassie Wed 28-Aug-13 16:06:47

Must be something wrong with me then, because at 73 I keep my trusty sidekick in the drawer beside the bed just in case the urge comes, and no hubby is in the other bedroom. Yoiur as young as you feel..........

Ariadne Wed 28-Aug-13 17:35:38

grin

Marelli Wed 28-Aug-13 17:47:33

Elenk - I started a thread at the start of the year called 'Vaginal Atrophy'. My friend was suffering terribly from this and so I asked the women on here if they had any advice for her. As usual, lots of useful information flooded in, and my friend E attended the hospital and has been prescribed Vagifem. It's really helped her. I hope you get this sorted out soon, because I know she was in terrible discomfort - even walking was painful.

Elenkalubleton Thu 29-Aug-13 15:44:07

Thanks for all your info,seeing Doc next week she has promised me something with Oestrogen in it.Nothing seems to be relieving the awful itching,go to bed with sudocrem which helps me sleep.I really don't care if there's a risk with the Oestrogen,rather like to have a sex life again!,why does every thing have to stop just because I'm 66.wish me luck with Doc !!

kittylester Thu 29-Aug-13 16:26:49

I've been using Vagifem and found it very good until the manufacturers changed the dose from 25 micrograms to 10 but the maintenance usage remains the same at twice per weekconfused

Needless to say, it isn't working so well. I've resorted to buying something from Tesco at £8 per week until I can get to see my GP. angry

Elenkalubleton Thu 29-Aug-13 19:06:13

What are you buying from Tesco? Does anyone know if I can get HRT on line
As the only only one ive seen from Lloyd's chemist you have to be 60 or under,I'm 66.Have bought progesterone creme been using it a week now,not noticed anything much.

Elenkalubleton Thu 29-Aug-13 19:07:26

What are you buying from Tesco? Does anyone know if I can get HRT on line
As the only only one ive seen from Lloyd's chemist you have to be 60 or under,I'm 66.Have bought progesterone creme been using it a week now,not noticed anything much.

kittylester Fri 30-Aug-13 11:43:03

The stuff I'm using is called Balance Active and, in our Tesco, is next to the durex - ironic grin

Poppikok Fri 30-Aug-13 20:12:54

Let's not forget......There's many a good tune played on an old fiddle!smile

Galen Fri 30-Aug-13 20:54:46

Not progesterone pleas!

Greatnan Sat 31-Aug-13 07:19:35

Buying any medication on-line is fraught with danger.

Nelliemoser Sat 31-Aug-13 07:42:51

Kitty I was looking for feminine wash in a co-op pharmacy and it was on the very bottom right hand corner of a display shelf with condoms on.

Why not put it with the feminine hygiene bits? I thought it was just that chemist. Its clearly a man who works out these things. confused

Greatnan Sat 31-Aug-13 07:47:04

I think 'feminine washes' are a con - part of the great campaign to convince women that their normal scents are somehow wrong.

Nelliemoser Sat 31-Aug-13 08:00:27

Greatnan I do not find these washes a con. Using anything else causes me a lot of discomfort. What I use is formulated for very "sensitive areas" and any normal washes I find really irritate. It's connected with with the Atrophic Vaginitis.

JessM Sat 31-Aug-13 08:13:11

The problem is when people with healthy normal tissues feel they should use them. Or when people use them instead of taking an infection to the doctor.

Nelliemoser Sat 31-Aug-13 08:23:01

I kept thinking I had an infection, thrush or whatever, which turned out to be down to using ordinary shower gel in delicate areas. ouch!

kittylester Sat 31-Aug-13 08:26:48

You have to have been there, don't you nellie wink

Greatnan Sat 31-Aug-13 08:26:53

Why use anything more than warm water? I know some of these douches wash away the natural lubricants supplied by nature.
We are now being told that our underarms need some special cream - manufacturers have worked hard to convince women that their natural odours are disgusting.

kittylester Sat 31-Aug-13 08:34:39

GN - natural lubricants - what are they? confused

Greatnan Sat 31-Aug-13 09:08:40

Are we talking about two different things? I know some women need artificial lubricants after the menopause, but they are not douches.

Greatnan Sat 31-Aug-13 09:10:40

women.webmd.com/guide/vaginal-douching-helpful-or-harmful

Mishap Sat 31-Aug-13 09:20:30

Vaginal douching! - I simply don't have the time! Leave it to nature, and when she packs up, go to the doc and see what she can come up with..