Writing a romantic novel

I will just add that after finishing the first draft of my novel I got a pop up from Austin Mitchell, a vanity publisher, and I sent them a hard copy of the book. After oohing and aahing and telling me what a wonderful book it was they pjroposed to publish it at a fee of £3800. Do not be fooled by them or any other vanity publisher. I asked them to send me back the hard copy as I needed to make some revisions. They sent it back. I received a couple of phone calls asking when I might be finished with it. I fobbed them off. Then I got a bill for £3800!
I rang them immediately and they apologised profusely and said they thought they had published it! The editors I had spoken to had left.

As far as I know, getting an agent is not easy. Anja seems to know how to get one. I have the names of just 2 UK agents who might be interested in submitting my book to a publisher. If the publisher accepts it I will get a payment and the agent will take a hefty share.
If I publish with Amazon I will get a lot more money but as noted by others you do have to work to get it noticed,

Writing the book is the easy bit! The next part is far harder. Look at the Writers and Artists Yearbook for info.
I have 2 published novels which are available to buy from bookshops and Amazon as well as in Kindle version. I've just plain been very lucky in meeting the right person at the right time followed by a series of helpful events none of which I could have imagined myself. That's no help to you though just to say that there isn't a sure fire way of getting a book published and promoted. I'd warn you that this us shark infested water. Beware publishers who would charge you money or organisations that promise to promote your book.

It is not difficult to place a book on Amazon, I had a slight problem getting them to accept my ISBN number because I hadn't bought it fom their recommended supplier. But Amazon is just a marketplace, you have to advertise your book or get it reviewed yourself, or no one will know it is there.

The Writers and Artists Year Book lists agents as well as publishers. I don't think it's easy to get either, tbh. I have three full length novels I have written over the years that I would like to publish on Amazon but it all seems very complicated. Has anyone done this? How difficult was it really?

Hi Anja, Thank you for your opinion, I would be grateful if you could kindly give me some information on how to get one, please.

Are you by chance an author yourself?

Incidentally writing a ‘romantic’ scene can be a master class in subtlety.

Get an agent

Thank you all for your comments and advice. I used to belong to a local writers group but it closed. I have taken several online courses including Jericho Writers. These you have to pay for. Harry Bingham is very good and gives advice by email but in the case of sex writing he merely points you in the direction of one of his many videos. I have not yet had any advice which I feel comfortable with. I think I will probably leave out any blow by blow descriptions and stick with just hinting, ,,,

If you are uncomfortable writing raunchy scenes then your books will never sound or read well. Be true to yourself and write what make you happy. There's nothing which says you must have graphic sex scenes.

I used to be a working member of the Romantic Novelists Association and we had many talented authors, some of them better, in my view, than those already published by M&B.
However, in the 10 years I was with them, not one single manuscript was accepted by M&B or any other publisher with similar imprints "Because we're not accepting authors from your area" said the visiting M&B exeuctive at our annual meting.

Eventually, some authors elected to have their books printed with lovely covers too. They sold really well and the authors made a very reasonable amount of money, rather than the tiny percentage offered by publishers.

Do it your way Annaram1

Writing about sex isn't dirty-minded. It's just a describing what people do quite naturally. It does however have to fit the flow and general timbre of the story.

I am sure we have all read novels in which a gratuituous sex scene has been added just for the sake of it. Ken Follett springs to mind. Or sex written so badly it has the reader cringing or rolling on the floor laughing. Anyone remember Morrissey's bulbous saluation? No? Probably best forgotten.

I can't remember which radio station, but they used to read an excerpt from an erotic novel each night.
Their best reader had a voice (like mine!) which was flat, and pure estuary English.
It was a great laugh.

Don't they always say 'write what you know best'. The other advise is that its perilously easy to write sex scenes badly....they end up unintentionally funny. Mind you the power of subtlety is remarkable we all know that Mr Rochester is quite the filthy beast.

There should be lots of inspiration on GN itself.
Not naming names but you might find the particular thread I and others are finding reminiscent of a “bodice ripper”

Yes, sometimes the anticipation is better than the nitty gritty of it.
Maybe you could find some other way to write in some spicy bits, or hint at them?

Mills and Boon have several styles of book. They are not all raunchy. Google them. There are also templates outlining structure and character type required for their books. I looked at these out of interest. However, I couldn't bring myself to even try. Am too much of a feminist!
Perhaps there's a writers group local to you that you might enjoy going to. They might be able to advise you on best course of action or act as beta readers.

My book is a bit different to the normal romantic novel. There is the death of one of the women and the ending is strange, weird, and unsettling,
Perhaps a few sex scenes would take away from the romance? Think of some of the great Victorian romances - not that I am comparing my efforts to those - Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights etc. They did not include sultry scenes yet are still very sexy books, aren't they?

I would let the family think I was a dirty minded old lady.
Seriously though, tell them there is some sexy stuff in there, then its up to them if they want to read them.
They may prefer not to.
Good luck!