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Bereavement

Last night I became a widow

(319 Posts)
M0nica Thu 01-Oct-26 08:44:24

Normal service will be resumed as soon as possible

Meandrogrog Mon 05-Oct-26 07:36:33

💐 and sending virtual hug xx

GrannyGravy13 Mon 05-Oct-26 07:19:39

Sending you (((hugs))) M0nica and strength for the coming weeks 💐

Usedtobeblonde Mon 05-Oct-26 06:48:16

I agree with the sentiment shown M0nica your DH had a lovely day and quietly slipped away after enjoying doing what he loved and being with you ina very happy place for you both.
I know you will be very comforted by this when all the shock and trauma have lessened.

You will be very busy and overwhelmed in the coming days ,weeks and months but we shall be happy to see you back with us with your wisdom and reasoned posts when you are ready.flowers

Calendargirl Mon 05-Oct-26 06:38:46

What a shock MOnica, but the fact he died after spending a good day in a favourite place will prove to be a comfort in the sad days ahead.

So many of us have been keeping you in our thoughts.

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Dickens Mon 05-Oct-26 00:00:57

It will be some comfort that DH was in his 'happy place'...

The tumult of emotions that follow - the shock, the grief, and the dawning realisation that your life will never be quite the same again, can be overwhelming. Especially when there is so much practical stuff to deal with at the same time.

I hope you have the support you need from family - and friends. Take it, and allow yourself the space to grieve the while.

You are in my thoughts MOnica - frequently.

friendlygingercat Sun 04-Oct-26 23:17:35

Sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

Purplepixie Sun 04-Oct-26 22:57:40

Condolences. X

MG55 Sun 04-Oct-26 22:57:16

What a terrible shock for you. Take care of yourself 💐💐💐

Rosie51 Sun 04-Oct-26 22:44:47

Oh M0nica how bittersweet for you. I hope you do get comfort from knowing your DH died where he was so happy. A terrible shock for you though. Take care of yourself, your arrangements will be even more complicated than most of us would have, and could be especially tiring. I hope you have plenty of practical as well as emotional support. x

M0nica Sun 04-Oct-26 22:36:49

I am overwhelmed by all your kind wishes -so many -.

We were on holiday in France, Staying in the gite we had 'adopted' since we sold our house there. We were all so happy to be back in France after 15 months absence, but DH especially so. We had a lovely day then he had a cardiac arrest in the early hours of the next day. If he had to go, it could not have been better for him,

Back home now and down to earth to deal with all the arrangements and paper work that inevitably follow a death.

Hope to be back sometime soon.

Mauduit24 Sun 04-Oct-26 08:25:42

M0nica

Normal service will be resumed as soon as possible

Sending heartfelt sympathies to you & your family at this sad time . Much love to you all xx

Franski Sat 03-Oct-26 21:49:08

Oh very very sorry...........come back wben you're ready and we will be here. Thinking of you and your family as you make all the preparations. Love xx

honeyrose Sat 03-Oct-26 21:19:07

Sending my sympathies, Monica.

springishere Sat 03-Oct-26 16:16:02

Such a tribute to Gransnet that so many of us can sympathise and offer to help. I hope you find a little comfort in this.

sharon103 Sat 03-Oct-26 16:03:22

So very sorry to hear this M0nica. My deepest sympathy to you and your family xxx

NotAGran55 Sat 03-Oct-26 08:28:08

I’m so sorry to hear your sad news Monica. Sincere condolences to you and your family.

SunshineSally Sat 03-Oct-26 00:29:35

My sincere condolences Monica. Be kind to yourself. We are all here for you x

dogsmother Fri 02-Oct-26 22:38:32

M0nica

Normal service will be resumed as soon as possible

Condolences to you, hold on tight, day by day you will get there xxxxx

GrannyIvy Fri 02-Oct-26 21:48:44

I am so sorry sending love to you and your family ❤️

Norah Fri 02-Oct-26 20:44:35

My condolences M0nica. flowers

NoodleNut Fri 02-Oct-26 19:20:48

So sorry to hear this MOnica x

Curlywhirly Fri 02-Oct-26 19:05:12

So sorry to read your sad news, sincere condolences to you and your family thanks

MollyNew Fri 02-Oct-26 18:24:23

Sincere condolences M0nica flowers

Aveline Fri 02-Oct-26 18:18:29

How are you doing M0nica? I hope you've got kind support and help over these difficult days.

Duvetdiva Fri 02-Oct-26 17:15:28

M0nica

Normal service will be resumed as soon as possible
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