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Sudden death of my Husband.

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Bellab Tue 10-Feb-26 18:01:07

I lost my Husband suddenly and unexpectedly at Christmas.This is the week following the funeral and it seems even harder. People go back to their lives,totally understand,but mine is not there anymore. Ive been looking for a group or meetup of people in the same position but cannot find anything. The support groups are ok but I'm trying to think more positively.I am trying to look forward. My children are wonderful and supportive but they have jobs and children. Any ideas?

dahlia Tue 04-Aug-26 17:22:21

This reply resonated with me, as I found myself scrubbing the patio of pigeon droppings the other day, it was both soothing and had a real purpose - the results were amaazing!
My dear husband died at the end of May, very suddenly and without any warning, and I find myself sitting on the edge of the bed, sobbing. Family are very supportive and I live in a village full of kindness, but all I really want to do is hold his hand again. My thoughts go out to all of those who have suffered a loss, we are in a very reluctant club.