Does it get easier?

I dont have any advice unfortunately. I just hope you can get through these Easter holidays which must make you feel incredibly lonely remembering happier times. Thinking of you and hope you can try some bereavement counselling xx

to you all xx

Thanks maddyone. I have RA, and many health problems linked to it. I honestly never thought fir one moment that my fit, healthy, happy husband would die before me. Life eh ?

I just want to say I’m thinking of you all today. I haven’t lost my husband yet, but one of us will lose the other at some point. We know it will happen when we say our vows, but it doesn’t make it any easier. I have no advice, how could I have, but just thinking if you all.

I have no advice but just want to say you’re in my thoughts, Su22.

for Su22 and Iam64. I’m so sorry for all those feeling this way. I find I miss my mother more as time goes by but the pain is not so great so I hope for the same for all of you too.

I don’t think it gets easier or that our feeling of loss is lessened. I think we develop greater coping skills that help us get thru. Thanks for sharing. Know that you are not alone. Sending you loving, warm thoughts and hugs . Be good to yourself.💐🌈

Su22, my husband died 6 months ago. I miss him with every fibre of my body, I’m bereft, sad and sometimes bowled over by a tsunami of grief.
I have dogs so I’m out every day, even if I just want to hide away.
I’ve turned down a number of opportunities to meet friends because I don’t want to find myself weeping.
I’m trying to be more sociable. Could you contact people?

I know it’s only a simple thing but I found going for a regular walk got me out of the house and now I often chat with the dog walkers who live near and walk in the park. It’s not easy living alone but the loss does diminish slowly it’s 4 yrs since my husband died I miss him everyday but it’s less painful as when I walk I remember a special holiday or trip we took.

Cruse bereavement services may be a way forward for you. Take care.

I’ve just read this and can’t give you any advice. However all I can do is to tell you to keep going you’re still going through the grieving process. I’m sending you hugs and kind thoughts think it’s this time of year you will feel it even more.