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DollyD Sun 30-Aug-26 14:44:28

I live in the family home alone and just this year I feel I’m struggling to keep up with everything.
My friend recently downsized and is not really happy but I wouldn’t consider that as I love my house, friendly neighbours and my little dog loves the big garden.
It sort of started over these heatwaves, when I thought to myself, I’ll deal with it when it cools down and when my grown up granddaughters called, I’d say, ā€œdon’t look at the state, it’s been too hot to keep on topā€, not that they would even notice. I’ve even asked my daughter and she says it looks ok to her but I see it’s not really.
I could get a cleaner and I might in the future but I’m trying to find a way of getting on top of it again.
Anyone else in the same boat and any others with advice would be good .
I’m probably exaggerating really, as it’s not particularly cluttered, apart from my bedroom dressing table and the chairdrobe 🤣 but it’s still pecking at my head.

M0nica Mon 31-Aug-26 08:24:19

None of us have been keeping up with the everything during the hot weather - and that applies to young as well as old.

Just accept that in exceptional circumstances. our usual routines get disturbed and things get neglected, and when those exceptional circumstances end things will gently return to normal.

My home currently looks as if a dust bomb has hit it. That is because we bought a project house a year ago and currently have a constant stream of builders doing dust making activities. I am just accepting that my house will remain so until the work is finished, just going round and doing a bit of dusting when it gets too obvious. When the work is complete I will do a a thorough clean - and get back to normal

Fallingstar Mon 31-Aug-26 08:54:39

My house is looking chaotic at the moment after the heat, my DH to care for, and a family crisis taking up most of my time. But I have learned to ā€˜triage’, do the work that is most urgent and most visible first. Then do other jobs at my leisure.
Thankfully did loads of decluttering a while ago and only have a back yard rather than a garden to care for.
And strangely when family or friends visit I always apologise for any mess but they always say how lovely the house looks.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Mon 31-Aug-26 08:59:32

I do my housework every day between 8 and 8:15am whether it needs it or not.
🤣

monk08 Mon 31-Aug-26 09:10:58

FriedGreenTomatoes2

I do my housework every day between 8 and 8:15am whether it needs it or not.
🤣

Like your style šŸ˜‚.

henetha Mon 31-Aug-26 12:08:49

I sympathise Dolly. Old age and a bad back mean that I'm not keeping up either. I do my best but it's not perfect by a long way.
I like your idea, FriedGreenTomatoes. Made me laugh. grin