My mother-in-law has (about 5 years ago)moved to be closer to us. The retirement properties in her new area are all "expensive" and "desirable" - some are old buildings which have been beautifully converted. Quite a few have small patio type gardens. She decided to move to a house instead and is very happy there so although I admit I would have liked the "on call 24 hours a day" security of the retirement units it was probably right for her to move into a house... somewhere arguably too big and with a big garden! 
I think if you are happy and safe in your retirement home that is the most impotant thing.
I love my mother-in-law and if she had used up all her savings and all her equity in a retirement property that wokld have been fine. Being happy and comfortable... that's OK by me.
I'm sure most daughters and sons will feel like this?
Hosepipe ban, why is this not nationwide?


