I am shocked that a very elderly one who lives alone has decided you only have one life and has take to drinking wine with her evening meal and what I call a liquer of an evening . She also takes medication but I don't know what . Should I be concerned ?
A few years ago we were talking about drinking levels and I asked my mother-in-law if she counted her units, or took any notice of the advice. "Not at my age" she replied. She's 96 now and still enjoys her Zinfandel 🙂
I suppose it depends on whether it's a glass or two or a bottle or two with the evening meal. But she sounds like a woman with the right attitude to me! Good luck to her. btw, a doctor recently told me that a glass of red wine was good for you. Not offering it on prescription though...
As if being old wasn’t hard enough without being moralised at. When I was sixty I decided never to waste time finishing a book I didn’t like, when I was seventy the decision was to say yes to everything offered (unless driving) and at eighty never to eat cabbage again. The older we get, the more we should do what gives us pleasure, and the poster does seem very judgemental. As my dear late MiL said, the question is what am I saving myself for?
We have a 93 year old over the road who lives alone. One day her bin rolled down the road in high winds. My DH retrieved it for her. He said it was full of wine and gin bottles. Her daughter visits her and when I ask how her mum is, she says 'She's absolutely fine'. Good on her.
Wine with her dinner? Such debauchery. I wonder if I’m a very elderly “one”. At 83 I’ve never thought of myself as old, let alone elderly. Off to the gym shortly and a glass with my evening meal. Pat37, you’re having a laugh, aren’t you?
My friend whom I saw yesterday is 86 like me. Her Husband died 14 months ago. He was very keen on fitness and diet, he watched everything they ate and particularly drank. She invited me to watch the Coronation on TVwith her and amazed me when she produced a wine box for us to have a couple of glasses with our lunch. She has since told me she has a glass every evening with her meal. I know she is enjoying while feeling a “ bit naughty”
I suppose it depends on whether it's a glass or two or a bottle or two with the evening meal. But she sounds like a woman with the right attitude to me! Good luck to her. btw, a doctor recently told me that a glass of red wine was good for you. Not offering it on prescription though...
One Consultant did at Swindon hospital; his patients were prescribed a glass of red with their evening meal.