I imagine that you would end up looking ‘old’ if you bought from a shop specifically for ‘older’ women. As others have said, look at different shops - in town or online - and, within reason, if you like the look of something, try it. I often buy second hand, though I know this is not for everyone. I frequent charity shops, and look on eBay and Vinted online.
AIBU To Be So Annoyed at the Stupidity of This
Father's Day Sunday — nobody makes cards for this type of dad

