Been online dating for a while.
Mostly just one date and sometimes getting to date two. But no relationship for 8 years. I'm 66, the past 18 months with reduced contact socially has taken its toll as well.
Recently met someone who is 12 years younger and has put me out of my comfort zone in every way.
Complete opposites looks wise background wise; he's a sharp city person, I'm a village/small town girl.
On both dates he has talked about us going out for days, going on holidays together, which all sounds a bit risky to me.
He likes a drink most days and I'm virtually teetotal.
Went on second date this week, I feel nervous when I meet him and I get overwhelmed by my concerns when my 'sensible' head kicks in.
But really enjoy his company when I'm with him.
My gut tells me he could unravel my comfortable life.
So other than the gut feeling, can the grans advise as to what checks they would do in a new relationship like this?
