I like the ‘old retainer’ bit ?it conjures up the image of a doddery old butler staggering in with the port on a tray.
I would do as another poster suggests, draw up a list of jobs that you want to be done, and show it to him, if he objects to doing the work, say that sadly you will have to let him go.
If he says he will do it....give him the opportunity.
Where did you want to move to when you were growing up?
Honestly, my house is such a mess
Soops kitchen, a place of reflection, refuge and at times revelry.


