I've been puzzling over this and never thought of gay icons either - why are they? My husband hasn't got musical bone in his body, but I still love him. He used to like Nana Mouscouri at one time because she wears glasses like his.
Illte It is quite well-known that those particular singers are icons of gay people. I couldn't give a toss if someone is gay or if they like Donna Summer and Cher.
Grumppa if that’s the case, what does it say about someone with eclectic tastes in music & enjoys anything from Beethoven & Mahler to bluegrass, soul, jazz, Latin, swing and rock’n’roll?
Isn’t the point of the OP to invite speculation on whether a person’s choice of music is an indication of character? Seems harmless to me. If pressed, I’d say OP’s man might not be someone I’d be spending an evening in the pub with.
It seems a very limited list. I review my Desert Island Discs selection (you never know!) every 10 to 15 years, and my selection of eight is much more varied than just gay icons of a certain generation.
I'd perhaps think that his musical taste wasn't very deep or varied. No Pink Floyd, Ella Fitzgerald, Eagles, Beatles? And yes they most definitely are gay icons.
It depends upon who the man is ... and the context in which the music will be played. If it was my partner who’d made that choice, i’d be astonished... ( it’s just not his taste ).