I'm not offended either.
I did ask our local Red Cross shop if they accepted donations of clothes which probably weren't suitable for sale eg old t shirts (clean) and they do because they sell to the ragman by weight.
So I label the bags
The manager also took some old duvets for the ragman. I'd normally take them to the dogs' home
Reducing contact because my heart just isn't in it.


by the number of bags I had, now I don't feel so bad. 
