Thanks for your suggestions, much appreciated. All good ideas and I will ponder. I like the idea of taking him for a meal, he lives three hours drive away and I dont think he could cope with us staying, but we might be able to think of a way. His daughter gave him a Costas card loaded up with credit which I thought was brilliant.
People being over fussy about cat welfare
Anyone else struggle with this?
Support and friendship for those whose lives have been affected by estrangement.


