Surprise 2nd grandchild after 7 year gap

snowbell what lovely news - go with your instincts and have fun with the new baby.

We have big gaps too. I'm told the closer the age gap, the more jealousy so you'll be spared that.
A 6yr old can be very helpful with a new baby. I was when my baby brother was born!
Congratulations!!!

I have seven years each between my second, third and fourth children - they're all great friends and it worked out very well. I'm sure you'll all be swept up in the excitement of a new baby and all will be well.

Relax, go with the flow and take your clues from the parents. Most child thrive despite their parents and grandparents.

10 years between my two,my daughter was almost a second mother to her very wee brother ( he was 3 months prem) and they have continued to be the best of friends all their lives.
Their families spend weekends together and go on holiday together .In fact they've all just left here after a fab couple of days.The GC all get on well too ,although the youngest two girls fight a bit because thy have the same nature.Iwouldn't expect any problems with a 7 year gap

6 years between GS1 &2. Age gap hasn't been a problem and baby care hasn't changed in the 6 years.

You may like to take a grandparenting course. These are designed to educate grandparents about standards that may have changed since their children were little.

Definitely go with what the parents tell you, though. If it's different from what you did, you could say something along the lines of, "That's new. I'm curious to know more about it."

What wonderful news! Please do not worry about the age gap. There are six and a half years between my eldest and the middle one, and nine years between number 2 and number 3 and they all have a strong bond.
As for how things work, just go with the flow, the parents will have their own ideas on how to bring up their little one. My advice, is just enjoy this new member of the family xxx

Seven years between my daughters as well. They didn't get on too well when the eldest was a teenager but after that they were fine. It will work out ok if the older child is included in preparations etc. Your grandson will enjoy being a big brother. Be guided by the parents about baby care they will have their own ideas. Congratulations and enjoy your family.

It’s sad that your DH won’t be here to share the joy of your new grandchild, snowbell.
But being retired, you’ll be able to devote as much time as you want to helping your DD or DiL with the new baby.
Don’t worry about ‘modern methods’ - it’s best to just go with the flow and do as you’re told
I’m sure the new little one will bring much happiness to your family

I had (have) just over 6 years between mine. I can't remember any problems and they are the best of friends now. My mum said it was a bit like having two only children. DD was in school when DS was born so she didn't resent the time I gave to him

It will be up to his parents to help him to adjust. You can only be guided by them.

Lovely news! Just relax and enjoy the new baby and baby's big brother!