My parents nearly called me Charity, and I feel I dodged a bullet there! I quite like my name - Penelope - and have tended to use it more in full as I've got older. As to surnames; I'm currently known by my late husband's name, though I prefer my maiden one. Can't be bothered to go through the hassle of changing it for the time being, though. However, if the current squeeze becomes a permanent fixture, our names would double-barrel in a pleasantly alliterative way. But I think that if I marry him it will be for more than a name.