Son moving on

Give them a token for return tickets so they can visit you!

Germany isn't 'far away'.

Is it a permanent move, or for x years for work?

Dh and I lived abroad for 13 years, including when dds were small. Ironically enough, though, both my parents and the in laws probably saw more of us all in total through the year, than they did of other dcs/gdcs who were scattered about the UK, since we stayed with them on annual leave, and both sets of parents came and stayed with us for at least a couple of weeks at a time.

As for gifts, I would ask. Maybe they won't know what they might want just yet.

No gift necessary.

Do you have a partner? I ask because you are likely to need support at times. (My daughter moved abroad.) Take care and ask for help when needed.

Just slip him a few € inside a card and tell him and his partner to buy a nice bottle of their preferred tipple on their first night to enjoy in their new home.

If they are renting, something small like a coffee machine? When they are settled in their own home maybe ask what they would like, depending on your finances of course. You will get used to him being away. I know from experience. It will unfortunately never be the same as living close but not too far for visits. Keep in touch.

You give them wings so they can fly.

Lovely post wildswan

It's very hard when children move far away. My advice would be - make sure you keep in touch. (Especially if grandchildren eventually arrive!) Text, email - and don't forget the bonus of Skype (and it's free!)

His gift will be your blessing!

You've already given him the greatest gift you could - he's moving on into adulthood, he's working, he has a partner, he's exploring the world. You did a great job !

There will be mixed feelings, sadness and happiness. Hope you get a chance to visit them soon.

Might be best to wait until they are settled and then ask if they need anything?

He’ll be fine!