The best of times...the worst of times..

Worst, seeing son in prison cell or being told I had cancer.
Best? still hoping!!

The best of times were the mid seventies, I was in the Wrens, met DH to be, brilliant friends, they were wonderful carefree times. The worst of times began 4 months ago with a terminal diagnosis for DH.

The best times were when I was at Art School ( luckily I realised at the time that I was never going to have so much freedom to do what I wanted again) The other best time was working in a theatre where we all just had such fun.

The worst time was the day my father died because it was so unexpected and we thought he was getting better.

Best times getting married births of children
Worst being told I had cancer

Best was my childhood. I was not a spoiled child but I did have a good life with loving parents and grandparents and other relatives.
I was absolutely stunned when I met DH and remain so even though he died.
I was happy when I had my DCs but it is not so good mow, very difficult.
Worst was when the last of my DPs died. This was the last of the people who made my younger life so good. DH was already dead, so this was the end of me having someone I could depend on no matter what.
Anyway must carry on doing my best to make my life worthwhile.

Childhood and adolescent was ok, but the best started when I was 22 and went to live my life my way abroad, where I lived for years. Only regret was that I didn't keep a diary during those years..wonderful times in all...
Worst of times is now
Overall, tho, I've lived a charmed life, guess my 'now' is the gods' payback time? But it could be worst...got , got got got the . Sunday's I can even have ]
Mustn't grumble - tho sometimes I do

Alishka - it is so hard to look back at a life you used to have but new you have a different life. I am not too keen on the way I live now. At least I am still alive despite illnesses and hoping for a bit more improvement yet.
Another boring thing is that I do not drink alcohol or smoke cigarettes and it seems to make people wonder about me. I just got some brains at long last
Hope you have some OK times too

Worst Loss of parents in their 60s, marriage collapse & fighting to save it, brother's mental health, suicide attempts & prison sentence
Best happy childhood, happy family life, rewarding career, rescued marriage, great friends& extended family, gorgeous children and grandchildren all living close by

on balance more on the best list than the worst though of course I wish the worst had not happened!

Aww, sugar -you're so sweet

I'm so blessed. I moved here 2 years ago, into a bungalow already adapted for the previous disabled owner. And now, hey presto! All those aids and grab rails and so on are SO useful! And my new neighbour's are kind and funny and helpful.
My family live on another continent but we're in almost daily contact, thanks to the Internet. No money worries as such and here in Birmingham disabled seniors are well catered for. We have a ring&pride service -£1 a trip door to door and the drivers come to collect you and give you a helping arm to the bus and even carry your shopping into the kitchen for you. Gosh, I even bought a palm tree type plant the other week and the driver obligingly brought it through and put it on my terrace! How good is that!
No, all in all, when I go to bed, I've no need to count sheep, I count blessings ( cue old song ) it's just that last October I was still driving, still running my own business and this move was supposed to be for my future. I'd no idea then that my future is now

BEST: The enjoyment of playing around in my grandparent's farm and big Georgian house. The dancing on Saturday nights at my father's hotel.Spending six months in Spain when on an exchange visit. My wedding day. Seeing our first grandchild, then the second one. Our holiday in NZ.
WORST:
Experiencing 5 medical tests that are now down under anesthetic. Having to leave a school where I was happy due to my condition. Being awake while having a major operation that took 8hrs. Finding my husband dead in bed when he was still young, also having to find a property after he died.

So many bittersweet memories on here, {{hugs}} and ? to you all.

Happiest times include having my wonderful DCs and a lovely DDIL and now two fabulous DGSs. Giving up work two months ago ?

Less so happy times is years of stress from being the main breadwinner and responsibility for virtually everything, my DPs both becoming increasingly frail and reliant on me (eldest and 'Because you're a nurse you can do it, your sisters aren't as capable' ??)'

Best - 3 DD's wedding days plus an amazing hour or two on the verandah of a tree house on the holiday of a lifetime - Botswana's Okavango Delta - no roads, no vehicles, no artificial lights - just the sounds of Africa. Whenever I have to have my BP taken, I go back to that moment.

Worst - being told DD had anorexia and bulimia - or when OH (having remortaged our home) went bust less than 6 months later.

But DD fine now - and way beyond retirement age, we should pay off that mortgage in 2018 - so working til we drop.

Swanny Same for me, only my daughter and her baby boy. Still worry all the time!

Isn't it strange how the bad times seem to come to mind easier than the good There have been a lot of happy times thankfully - perhaps the best times in our 30's when the children were independent and we moved to this house. Also both our son's weddings but especially the younger ones as it was a real rock and roll weekend of fun and amazing people. The worst times the closure of our business and near breakdown of my husband and also the 4 years of illness and caring for our parents. I think my husband would say his bad times never really got better - he feels we have nothing in life to look forward to now! Hugs to all of you who have been through such tragic times - ours pale into insignificance to those