The comments above have given me a chuckle today, sorry and thank you! I have cross stitched for years but still remember the initial panics. Just follow the instructions and don't give up.
Aida fabric is woven with holes to put the needle through, 14 count has 14 holes per inch and is usually the best for beginners. Good luck to those starting new projects.
Awful extension next door to my house ...


(Don't wait up)!
Brilliant thread (see what I did there?)