Hi. New to this site so not sure what to expect but I have a dilemma and would be very interested in other people’s thoughts
I have a new neighbour that shares my fence at the bottom of my garden. Unfortunately, we didn’t get off to a good start as his actions has had a serious affect on my garden. I asked him politely about the matter and he was pretty hostile so I let it go
He has now added a huge shed, a greenhouse, a patio area and an arbour, all against my fence. Consequently, he spends all the time that he’s in the garden right next to us. All, of course, he has the right to do so, even though it’s annoying to have our previous privacy disturbed
However, the main problem is that the man never stops whistling. I don’t mean under -the- breath soft tune. I mean something of the decibel of a ref’s whistle. The repertoire is pheeee-ew, the whistling from the McDonalds advert and often wolf-whistling. It is unbelievably intrusive
My DH and I love our garden, listen to the birds, grow veg and flowers now we are retired and it makes a huge difference to my mental health.
I’m very annoyed with myself for it to affect me so much but I’m afraid it does. I go in when he’s outside. Just don’t know how to handle it. I really don’t want the stress of a confrontation
Thank you for listening
Good Morning Tuesday 1st September 2026
Communication between husbands and wives 😂


