I was widowed with two little ones in the seventies, ,widowed mothers allowance and family allowance ,that was it . If I worked I paid tax as a single person and the widows allowance was counted as earnings . Creeping out at night to read the electric meter to see how much I had spent that day, I was lucky to be given work in the convent - a boarding school and a house for the nuns . They allowed me to have school holidays off and time off if children were ill. No mortgage but rent had to be paid so like mollie it meant juggling . To add insult to injury , I trotted to the post office every week clutching my pension book, one week ten pounds less, I went to the social security office and was informed the new government had brought in changes - yep Thatcher government, they deducted five pounds for each year I was widowed under the age of thirty five, I was widowed when thirty three so ten pounds deducted , ten pounds was such a lot in the early eighties , I still remember weeping into the night . I did tell them if my husband had foreseen this he would have stayed alive for a further two years.
I feel so sorry for the millions who will receive letters before Christmas telling them how much income they will lose
Cutting your coat is good if you have the cloth to cut , God help you if you haven't