I think if I were you, I'd go round and have a friendly word and just ask if they would mind giving you a hand. They might say no, but at least you won't have put their backs up by writing a note about 'joint responsibility'.
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difficult one, if there is bad feeling from the start it may cause friction having to live next to them.
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