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Tired and unreasonable

(29 Posts)
nanaej Sat 10-Aug-13 19:10:01

As long as they can see you are being fair they will continue to love you to pieces!

j08 Sat 10-Aug-13 19:07:24

I'm not sure I like the naughty step. A quick shout and it's over I find.

j08 Sat 10-Aug-13 19:06:38

I have given up trying to pussy-foot round my two. When necessary they get it both barrels. I think I shout more than the other gran.

Either they love me or they don't.

Caramac Sat 10-Aug-13 19:04:04

I do love being a granny but am finding it so much harder than mummying. I don't think its just because I am older. My daughters are happy for me to discipline little peeps, they seem to recall I was fair, mostly, with them and think my values and standards are good. Trouble is, I want to be nice granny, not the one who puts them on the naughty step etc whilst Mummy watches (and sometimes clearly disagrees but doesn't want to rock the boat). I am ashamed to say that sometimes I am too strict but I am so tired because I work and have a few health issues although nothing major and just want some peace and quiet. I provide some childcare (12hrs a week) and see them most days. What do others think?