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To use my second name rather than my first?

(28 Posts)
Movedalot Wed 29-May-13 15:06:33

One of my brothers was always called his second name. Parents wanted it to be his first but then the initials would not have read well.

DS3 was always called by a diminutive of his name and when he was 18 decided to change it. All he did was apply for a new passport and included a letter I had written as an explanation and it was done. Legally you don't need a deedpoll, just need to be in common use.

Ask to speak to the practice manager to explain.

sunseeker Wed 29-May-13 14:58:52

Needless red tape it seems to me.

Reminds me of my two uncles, one was called Albert William and the other William Albert (my grandparents obviously not that imaginative!). The one named Albert was known as Bill and the one named William was known as Albert - I have never been able to work that one out confused

Lilygran Wed 29-May-13 14:54:16

My parents gave me two names but chose to use the second. I've never been addressed by my first name and this has never been a problem until quite recently. Anytime I get tangled in a bureaucratic web, I now get treated as a dubious character with an alias. Latest was a surreal conversation with the doctor's receptionist who has now told me that in order to prove my existence I will have to take her my birth certificate or passport. I've been registered with the practice for over 20 years. Anyone else have this problem? And if so, what do you do about it?