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Margaret Thatcher

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Eleanorre Tue 09-Apr-13 17:23:11

Do you find the vilification of Margaret Thatcher in some area in bad taste ? Despite what we might think of her she still was someones mother , wife etc..
My niece put a comment on Facebook about burning in hell and I could not let her say that without putting in my views . It really upset me that people could be so cruel to someone not long dead.

laidback Fri 12-Apr-13 23:48:47

Just a question or 2:
Why is she having this BIG funeral? is it because she wanted it? are all PM's entitled to a 'ceremonial' funeral? Why is it only Churchill had this scale of funeral? I think even Gladstone had a small affair or the PM that died in the 60's had a small private funeral. What entitles her to it? and why is the Queen going?

ninny Sat 13-Apr-13 08:58:29

Good post Sel. I notice it has gone quiet on here now after you mentioned 13 years of Labour!

nightowl Sat 13-Apr-13 09:12:13

I decided two days ago that I had said all I wished to say on this subject, but I will add that I think it has gone very quiet for many reasons, none of them to do with the fact that Sel mentioned 13 years of Labour. I hope the threads on Margaret Thatcher will die now.

annodomini Sat 13-Apr-13 10:16:01

Ana - I'm eternally grateful to you for telling me how to get é! smile

Eloethan Sat 13-Apr-13 10:18:04

ninny If you look at the last few comments, they hadn't "gone quiet", although, given the way that Mrs T's critics and their comments have been characterised - as "negative", "haters", "the hate brigade", "vitriolic" "sheep", blinkered etc., it would be no wonder if they had.

Movedalot Sat 13-Apr-13 10:40:36

Just come back on since about midday yesterday and I have to say some of these posts are very unpleasant.

I will just copy 2 of them as I am about to go out and don't have much time:

"Mrs T said "No government can do anything except through people and people look to themselves first ...the quality of our lives will depend upon how much each of us is prepared to take responsibility for ourselves and each of us is prepared to help those who are unfortunate." Her view is akin to that of the American view where taxes are kept very low and the role of the state to allocate money to various services is limited. Charities in the US have a much bigger role in providing help but "unpopular" causes like mental health, mental disability, etc., tend to miss out."

I think that is a very reasonable quote of MT and cannot see how anyone could possibly find anything wrong with it. To then go on and state that is is 'akin' to anything imo shows a distict prejudice.

"FO Ana. - I've had enough of your petty stupid moronic responses" I do hope it is not necessary to point out what is wrong with this one?

Grannylin Sat 13-Apr-13 10:53:23

Is it really necessary to keep this going- it's starting to get very repetitive and I think we all know where we stand.

CariGransnet (GNHQ) Sat 13-Apr-13 11:02:02

It only takes a glance at the forums, the newspapers and twitter (etc) to see that the strong feelings - on both sides - stirred up by Margaret Thatcher have not been diluted in any way by her death.

As per my post elsewhere this morning - everyone is welcome to hol and share their own opinions but we do ask that you do bear in mind our forum guidelines. We have very few rules but the ones we have are important.

On the swearing front - yes we are all grown ups but wise here too to keep our guidelines in mind:

"Some people like swearwords, some don’t. It’s very often possible to find an alternative way of expressing yourself, even if you have something burning to say. We'd appreciate it if users kept to those alternative ways of expressing themselves as much as possible."

annodomini Sat 13-Apr-13 11:02:19

Grannylin smile

Movedalot Sat 13-Apr-13 12:50:11

Thanks Cari, it needed to be said.

Galen Sat 13-Apr-13 13:20:03

sunshineCari

j08 Sat 13-Apr-13 13:23:45

Ooh 'eck!

gracesmum Sat 13-Apr-13 15:10:54

Donning my steel knickers to join in on this thread, I was interested this morning to see a picture of MT as a little girl with her sister Muriel. Never having heard of any siblings, I had always assumed she was an only child, so I went looking. MTs sister Muriel died in 2004 aged 83 so she was the older sister, I have no way of knowing whether she shared MT's strong will, her ambition, even her intelligence and education. She married a William Cullen and had a son, Andrew and a daughter, Jane. This may be less interesting than watching paint dry to most people, but I found myself wondering whether they were in contact with MT? How they "related" to her when in office and after her retirement? What do they thnk of all the fuss that is going on and if they are playing any part in the funeral?

Nonu Sat 13-Apr-13 15:18:03

It is quite probable Andrew and Jane would grieve for the loss of their aunt .
We have no way of knowing

Nelliemoser Sat 13-Apr-13 15:20:04

I also assumed she was an only child. How very odd!

j08 Sat 13-Apr-13 15:23:22

I would think her family would attend her funeral! Why wouldn't they? She was a person as well as a prime minister. She probably had the same relationship with them as we would have with nieces and nephews.

celebgran Sat 13-Apr-13 15:33:18

Graces mum Margaret thatcher sister who died few years ago lived near us she was different to Margaret not so ambitious obviously but they were close in case you still interested ! I find it so sad people are happy to disrespect the dead totally unnecessary and is disappointing that so many on here joined that band wagon!

Movedalot Sat 13-Apr-13 15:41:41

Isn't there a grocery chain called Cullen?

gracesmum Sat 13-Apr-13 16:01:06

Thanks celb - I was actually nosey curious interested in whether they were anything like each other. It gives another aspect on Margaret the woman not the political figurehead. I wonder how I would have felt with such a high-powered sister? (Or indeed how my poor sister copes now.....grin)

Movedalot Sat 13-Apr-13 16:14:36

My sister and I were not at all alike in any way. Looked unrelated, thought differently, had totally different outlooks on life and got on brilliantly.

Minty Sat 13-Apr-13 17:00:17

I for one am appalled at the response of the death of MT.
As has been said somewhere before, she has a family who have lost a Mum and a grandmother, friends who are grieving, whatever peoples views on her politics etc, I despair at this apparent hatred.
Has this country lost all respect for others at what is a time of loss to a family.

Movedalot Sat 13-Apr-13 17:17:22

Yes, Minty for some it would seem it has.

ninny Sat 13-Apr-13 17:23:17

Totally agree Minty.

Nonu Sat 13-Apr-13 17:26:33

Common decency about the dead seems to have flown straight out of the window .

sad

janeainsworth Sat 13-Apr-13 17:30:55

I heard Carol Thatcher on the radio at lunchtime, saying how difficult it is when you lose your second parent.
I could really empathise with that, and feel so sorry that their grief must be compounded by all the vitriol that has been pouring out since her mother died.