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Grandmanorm Fri 15-Mar-13 19:50:41

Am I being unreasonable in thinking that some of the stuff on Comic Relief this year is most unsuitable for such an early part of the evening?
I feel sad. I was so looking forward to Call the Midwife and I thought is was awful.
I know I am old, but.........
Just glad I am not watching with my grandchildren or indeed my mother (long gone but sure you know what I mean).

Nelliemoser Sun 17-Mar-13 20:11:53

Ian42 Come off it! Compared with most of the developing countries we are a rich country. The problem in Britain is the lack of distribution of wealth. The the richest 10% in Britain are 100times better off that the poorest.

www.guardian.co.uk/society/2010/jan/27/unequal-britain-report

JessM Sun 17-Mar-13 19:49:50

Give it a break ian most of the people that give to the likes of oxfam and comic relief are probably the very people that give to uk charities as well. When people carp about charities - or even the undeserving poor - they appear to me to be making excuses not to give or to feel compassion. (this may be wildly unjust, but that is how it appears)
I never give to small charities as I know that they are not all run very competently. I also try to give in a way in which gift aid will boost my donation e.g. only give to charity shops that add gift aid to the value of the things I donate.

Ian42 Sun 17-Mar-13 19:46:36

This country is in dire straits now, if we keep giving our money away, who will look after us. Answer. No-one.

whenim64 Sun 17-Mar-13 19:23:12

Well said, Ariadne. I have only to think how I would feel about the children in my life being without food, clean water, shelter, healthcare or education and cannot ignore the basic needs of these children, who but for accident of birth could belong in my family. We're lucky - they deserve our support.

Ian42 Sun 17-Mar-13 19:03:40

What about the needy in this country?

Ana Sun 17-Mar-13 18:21:19

What you say is of course true, Ariadne, but the truth remains that a good many people are put off donating because of their suspicion that the money isn't going to the poor and needy, but rather to the rich and unscrupulous.

Ariadne Sun 17-Mar-13 18:15:22

I too am once again saddened to hear the comments about where international aid, charity donations and so on go.

I will repeat myself again; regardless of creed, politics or race, people who suffer, starve and are in need deserve our help. If people live under a corrupt regime, and they are dying for lack of clean water, and from preventable diseases, who are we to judge and leave them to die?

As human beings, it is surely our duty to care for one another? And some need our care more than others. If we can turn on a tap and have clean water, that is our good fortune. Others are not so lucky.

We must not be selfish!

Aspen Sun 17-Mar-13 16:37:55

But why are they in dire need? Bearing in mind the 70 years I mentioned I would have thought by now there would be a well at least in every village. Could I suggest shovels are bought and lengths of plastic piping so that the local people can dig trenches and cesspits instead of looking a effluence and rubbish we see adorning their streets. All these countries must have a certain level of GDP but the only place it seems to show up is in the life styles of their bloated leaders. Sorry soop, maybe we are the basket cases for allowing it to go on

soop Sun 17-Mar-13 15:42:54

I believe that it is a duty to assist those in dire need, in spite of the fact that not every penny is accounted for.
Aspen I am saddened by your words - "basket case called Africa"

Aspen Sun 17-Mar-13 15:31:11

I agree Ian. Looking back over my 73 years countless charities have been holding out their begging bowls for aid to that basket case called Africa. Tax relief can be claimed on donation and I believe the government is to match the amount raised on Friday with more tax payers money. Charities are now big business with senior management raking in big salaries. I think they should be investigated to see where all this foreign aid goes to.

Ian42 Sun 17-Mar-13 12:10:14

What about charities in this country? All monies given abroad end up in corrupt government pockets, which is the reason why they never get better. What they actually need is condoms and reduce the population.

j08 Sat 16-Mar-13 20:54:05

Yes, I thought the David Walliams bit was very funny. I hope they told John Prescott what the script was before they roped him in! grin

Deedaa Sat 16-Mar-13 20:43:06

So far the only bit I've seen is David Walliams, which I did enjoy. I particularly liked the pairing of him and Clare Balding - perhaps if he swam and she rode along the towpath they might work something out {smile]
At my grandson's school everybody wore their pyjamas, including the teachers. It looked like being great fun.

dahlia Sat 16-Mar-13 16:58:59

I used to enjoy Comic Relief when the participants were funny (or I thought they were!). Now I just feel mildly embarrassed! Could be the passing of the years, and I am still happy to donate and feel it is "a good thing" if people are reminded of their blessings, and how many people live and die without even the bare necessities of life. I do find the juxtaposition of humour with a searing film about children dying inappropriate, but perhaps the shock factor pushes some people into donating who otherwise wouldn't do so.
I find my grandchildren's participation in Comic Relief day very uplifting, they work very hard and at the same time realise not everyone is as lucky as they are.
So, not a bad thing, but just not mine! smile

j08 Sat 16-Mar-13 16:58:43

I have just watched the earlier bits on catch-up (missed them last night) and I thought the Simon Cowell sketch was very good, and the Midwives were brilliant.

sunseeker Sat 16-Mar-13 14:35:18

I do donate but never watch the programme. I don't like it when some "celebrity" is parachuted in to tell us what wonderful work is being done in a particular orphanage/clinic or whatever. I would rather be told about it by the people who are there 24/7 and actually doing the work

Madrigal Sat 16-Mar-13 13:28:44

After 25 years perhaps we've just seen it all before and have outgrown it? It's like waking up and suddenly realising that Terry Wogan's radio show has suddenly become strangely comforting. Or catching yourself thinking that One Direction isn't a patch on the Four Tops...

I like the idea of Comic Relief, and if some people still find it funny (what is it about men kissing men as a joke that some people still find shocking and hilarious?),

I'm happy to donate to such a very good causes and I think the world is a better place because of the work that Comic Relief is able to support. I watch a bit, realise it's not as funny as I always hope it will be then switch over to something else. It's a bit like New Year's Eve. Never quite lives up to the expectations.

ninathenana Sat 16-Mar-13 10:54:20

No need to suffer watching to donate :-)
I think in the last few years a large percentage of funds are raised in the lead up anyway.

hochiwich Sat 16-Mar-13 10:21:31

Hi feetlebaum, no I'm not a Romany that I'm aware of. My father claimed to be and there is a possibility that his father was. Maybe that's why I and my brother have studied the Romany way of life and language. As to being a hedgehog, what can I say? I used to have a tendency to curl up in a ball when in danger, and can be quite spiky. Though I have mellowed with age. I chose the name years ago and it's just stuck with me, mainly because it never gets "that name is not available". smile

annodomini Sat 16-Mar-13 10:20:56

I saw a bit of it but must have fallen asleep because I can't remember much about it but there was a distressing item about a little boy with tetanus - I was doing some ironing so must have been awake - and that made me think how much we take vaccination for granted. Bill Gates's Dimbleby lecture focused on vaccination and we should be very grateful for the work that he and his wife are leading. I'm not a billionaire but I wish I could have saved that child.

hochiwich Sat 16-Mar-13 10:13:47

Thank you, yes, I haven't posted before. I just saw this subject raised on my Facebook page and decided to put in my tuppenceworth. smile

feetlebaum Sat 16-Mar-13 09:59:25

Hi hochiwich - are you by any chance a hedgehog? (or a Romany?)

j08 Sat 16-Mar-13 09:45:14

Yes. Very welcome hochiwich. smile

whenim64 Sat 16-Mar-13 09:43:24

Hi hochiwhich haven't seen your name before, so welcome flowers

Ariadne Sat 16-Mar-13 09:35:46

I agree that the cause is good - who wouldn't? But I couldn't, and didn't watch it. I don't know half the people mentioned anyway.