Xmas holiday dilemma

I think it is best to say nothing! Leave it for them to sort out.

Why bother with a holiday where there is all this drama? Make an excuse and do something you actually enjoy.

?? my fave Christmas Song and video.

Tsk..was it the same last Christmas as well ?

ananimous

Book them into the local toddlers ski school and the adults can then enjoy a happy Christmas.

Or tell them to 'piste off'.

I'd say "Your elephant is too big for the room" and un-invite them. You've got 10 other friends to enjoy the holiday with.

If A is your best friend then surely you can have a word with her and say their behaviour last year made others uncomfortable.
Otherwise ignore them and enjoy the holiday.

Sounds like a few adults still with typical teenage behaviour. I'm glad I'm not coming.

Why would you all want to spend a holiday together with tensions and drama?

If nothing has happened in the last 12 months, it must be an exceedingly slow-burning flame!
Leave it up to them.

Look at it this way..last Christmas B gave A his heart, right ?
I bet it was only the very next day she gave it away. Little minx.
B just wants to give his heart to someone special, save his tears.
You see and hear of this kind of thing every Christmas.

QIrene Spot on!

I’m confused! Are you hosting a ski-ing holiday for 12-14 people, or are you inviting them all to your house for dinner during or after the holiday?

If it’s just dinner, perhaps put up with their behaviour, but if it’s for a whole holiday, perhaps the unhappy ex-couple might be happier elsewhere. If they are both bringing their new plus one, it might be a dramatic time for everyone! ❄️

Well hopefully, the 12 months in between and made them see sense !
Tell me, is friend A the one that arrives with no luggage?

Hilarious!

I've been taking notes here. I reckon there's a book in it..

Yes, hubby says if they need a father figure talk he'll do it, and take them both outside for a word, maybe they've turned a different corner now, and hopefully our winter chalet will be nothing short of the edge of heaven, without their careless whispers. Happy Christmas!

You could try putting each in a different corner? . . . but don't let the sun go down before it's sorted.

Please feel free to sing along....

? Last Christmas I gave you my heart but the very next day you gave it away, this year to save me from tears I’ll give it to someone special ?

Merry Christmas Everyone ?

If their behaviour makes you uncomfortable this year, you are justified in telling them so. They will no doubt be offended, but either you have to put up with their behaviour or speak up.

Surely others noticed the atmosphere between A and B. Is it is the same this year then they need to be confronted regarding their behaviour when it occurs. It's not on when holidaying with others. They are acting like children, treat them so

Oh nannysprout you did make me laugh,

It sounds to me that a holiday in frosty snow may be quite appropriate

Nice try, HenryKelly!

Reported.

Hang on, what's happened to today's HenryKelly post that suggested we might all be better off playing online games for cash on the site he linked to? I didn't imagine it, surely?

Wanders off feeling a little bit spooked....