My daughter has struggled with unpleasant symptoms for many years. I used to be able to help out with care for her two children, but am now trying to cope with Fybromyalgia and Menieres disease. We get along well but I am feeling either guilty or pressured, not from her, but myself because I am very limited in what I can do in a practical way. We both suffer with depression, but she always has to put on an I am fine front with her in-laws. Her husband is supportive, but it has been tough for him. The DC are aged 6 and nearly 2. The in-laws will have nothing to do with me, they do not like me.
Gransnet forums
Relationships
That's really difficult for you bubbly
Luckily you get on well with her and your SIL, so they obviously accept how much you can do, so take comfort from that.
I'm sure you will get useful suggestions from the wonderful GNs here.
Take care 
Sorry to hear of this diagnosis - I hope that you are all getting the right support - try www.mssociety.org.uk; they may be able to help with support and guidance.
bubbly I am so sorry that you are not only fighting physical symptoms but depression too which makes it very hard for you to fight your condition. Long term illness is so debilitating of mind and spirit but as Mishap suggests seek help from those organisations especially set up for it and don't be afraid to ask for help.
bubbly so sorry to hear about your troubles
Have a look into the Carers Trust. There should be a local branch who can provide advice and support in addition to SS. Some areas also put on activities for young carers although yours may be a little young for this just yet.
Join the conversation
Registering is free, easy, and means you can join the discussion, watch threads and lots more.
Register now »Already registered? Log in with:
Gransnet »