My niece who lives in Italy is going through a difficult divorce and is short of cash. I said I would give her £700 that I have in my Santander account to tide her over for the next week or so.
I went to our Banking Hub and waited for 45 minutes to see the Santander member of staff. Fair enough the teller was busy.
I then was grilled, as I should be, about why I was sending money to Italy. I answered every question honestly and correctly, every hoop I jumped through gave another hoop ! I had to extend the time on my car park ticket as the time moved on. Because I don’t have the Santander App on my phone caused problems. They recorded my voice, fair enough.
Then when my extended car park ticket was nearing the end they said I would have to wait another 10 minutes or longer. I was distraught. I told them I would close my account and left them in tears.
I went to Nationwide where I have accounts they were brilliant, realised how upset I was and I have agreed to return when I feel better and they will sort it all for me.
I do realise how important it is to make sure this is not fraud but I gave them all the right info and my niece still does not have the money.
Onward and upward hopefully.
What medical conditions seem more common now than when you were growing up?
Am I being taken for granted, or is this just what being a grandparent is today?


