For me it’s very little at the mo, after decluttering. Just my Ac books from school from infants, Christmas decs, wallpaper, a big trunk of childhood memories and a roll of carpet
How can I stop people from 'helping' ?
Engagement Party and then Hen Party
Small things that make you feel happy

I daren't risk climbing a ladder to get up there, so when one of my DSs or GSs comes to see me, I'll send him up to take stock.