When to tell Long Distant SO about denture

Why do you need to tell her? If she finds out in the fullness of time so be it. Unless she is incredibly picky it won’t matter a jot.

How do you know she doesn't wear dentures too - it's not an issue you should be worrying about! Good luck with your meeting.

Its only a denture. She may well have one too.

Welcome to gransnet What2do.
I'm afraid your post made me chuckle. I think your anxiety about the first meeting is causing you to worry about something so seemingly unimportant.
Good luck with the meeting . Try to forget about your teeth but avoid toffees.

So long as it's firmly in place why worry ? Don't sneeze !!

How old is she? How do you know she is vain?

'She's a wonderful woman, a little vain..'
And you are not?

Stick your dentures in firmly. And be sure to take off your rose coloured spectacles.

I'm not sure how old you are but surely you must know it is impossible to tell, when you haven't met someone, and have been in long-distance contact only 6 months, whether they are wonderful or not?

Loneliness can make a person vulnerable and, sadly, gullible.

Keep your hand on your ha'penny as we say in Yorkshire and try to see reality rather than what your loneliness is urging you to accept.

Thank you all for your feedback and advice, it was most comforting...to answer some questions, I am 51 years old she is 48, hmmm, I did say she is vain....more about HER looks however she the kind of person that finds ugly beautiful...I am going to catch some hell for this but just being honest, she has chihuahua's....and loves french bulldogs.....I honestly think those two animals put the ug...in ugly....however, she loves em...am I vain, hmm, great point...guess I am a little...however, I would rather be w/ someone who is beautiful on the inside and maybe not so much on the outside, outside beauty fades w/ time...inside beauty IMHO...grows more beautiful each and every day...

Thanks everyone for your kind and QUICK responses...this board is excellent!!!!

just don't leave them in a glass by the bed …..

Sorry to be thick but what does SO stand f for?

Sorry for typo

Onaclearday SO usually stands for "significant other" probably partner being the best synonym though I've never seen it used for someone you have never met.

What2do May I ask who paid for the plane ticket?

Sorry, SO = Significant other...

Esspee - We both are working professionals, so since she took her vacation time I paid for the ticket.

You paid for the ticket ? Why ? Surely she should at the very least pay half. Please be careful.

Be VERY careful at spending money on someone you have NEVER met. Watch out for ‘...excited to be seeing you but need more money because...’ texts too. ?

Oh dear why do I get warning bells ringing here
If you are both working why didn’t she buy her own ticket over, it’s her holiday Would she pay yours to go there ?
How do you know she’s a wonderful woman? you have only heard her side of the story she could be telling you any old sh1t You Have no idea who she is
Sorry to rain on your parade but don’t let your heart and other organs lead your head I think your dentures are the last thing to worry about

Oh thank God for that i thought I was shut out again.

I agree with Bradfordlass and others urging caution. Have you tried googling her photo and name? There's no fool like an old(ish) fool.

There are many stories about people being conned through on line dating sites but few of the success stories make headlines. And there are a lot of success stories. So good luck What2do. Have a lovely time with your lady and don’t worry. (And as *Bradfordlass says “keep your hand on your ha’penny!)

Resurgam123 have you been shut out?

Aha Resurgam just read “Good Morning” thread. No I’ve not been shut out of GN but FB has been iffy on my phone and I can no longer access our local paper on it. It’s an Huawei. Perhaps things will improve now Donald says its OK!

I am a bit doubtful about all this, including the being shut out.