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Jane10 Thu 09-Nov-17 10:52:58

I've been studying Positive Psychology with a U3A group. We're doing a MOOC on it. Its early days yet but its very interesting. 'Happiness' and a right to it is a relatively new concept. Going back over millennia and in many cultures the word for luck was the same as for happiness. Gradually happiness became something to aspire to in the next life so you had to be really good in this one or else. Something the churches encouraged.
Recent studies seem to have found that to have a happy life it has to be meaningful too. Doing things with and for other people is very important.
All interesting and relevant. One downside is the concept of unhappiness. As in previous centuries people didn't expect to be happy it is posited that they didn't feel bad about it (although they probably felt cold, hungry etc they may not have expected actual happiness)
Nowadays with a western expectation of happiness, if one isn't, one can feel deprived or as if something has gone wrong and that its fixable in some way.
All interesting and theoretical. A lot rings true with me. I don't expect to feel happy : contentment is good!

Gagagran Thu 09-Nov-17 11:05:21

I thought this was going to be about Sir Ken Dodd and his famous song! He was 90 yesterday and what a huge amount of happiness and laughter he has engendered in his long life.

I once laughed so much at one of his live shows that I dislocated my jaw!

Seriously though, I agree with you Jane10. Contentment is to be treasured and is a great thing to have.

Jane10 Thu 09-Nov-17 11:11:28

There's nothing so uplifting as a good laugh! Shame about your jaw though! That probably cheered up A&E staff when you told them how it happened too.

Nelliemoser Thu 09-Nov-17 11:11:56

Jane10 There are some very interesting ideas in that.

silverlining48 Thu 09-Nov-17 11:11:57

Contentment and peace of mind is what i aspire to.
Certainly expectations of happiness and fulfill ment in life and work are assumed by most which often sets us up for disappointment.
In the 60’s when i started work it was something you did to pay for roof and living costs, it was seen as a bonus if you actually enjoyed it. Enjoy your studies jane.

nanaK54 Thu 09-Nov-17 13:54:47

Jane that's sounds so interesting........
'doing things for and with other people is very important' - yes I would go along with that smile