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kittylester Fri 26-Aug-16 11:13:38

So far this week I have got into trouble for not spotting that DH had eaten the last tin of corned beef a couple of weeks ago and needed some for lunch today and nor did I spot that he had used the last 4 black bin bags and therefore replenish before the cleaner came!

And there's me thinking that for the last 46 years we'd had a system whereby the head shopper had to be informed when the last item was taken out of stock!confused

Charleygirl Fri 26-Aug-16 11:19:07

Is he not capable of taking over some housekeeping duties or is it women's work?

I would have a few words to say to him and he would not like any of them!

Greyduster Fri 26-Aug-16 11:35:48

Nothing for it but to withdraw your labour, kitty (and anything else that might make him sit up and think!).

Ana Fri 26-Aug-16 11:38:26

We have a shopping list on the noticeboard in the kitchen. If someone uses the last of something, or we're getting low, it's put on the list straight away (in theory, but works quite well!).

POGS Fri 26-Aug-16 11:44:05

You are simply one of those people who expect too much of others Kitty. grin

NanaandGrampy Fri 26-Aug-16 11:45:50

Well of course you did !! What happened ?? Did your mind reading skills go on the blink ? Tut tut smile

sunseeker Fri 26-Aug-16 12:04:41

Sit him down and quietly explain to him that the fairies who usually replace things are on strike and he needs either to go out and buy more himself or tell you (preferably the former!)

kittylester Fri 26-Aug-16 12:04:55

We also have a shopping 'cat' chalk board Ana, they weren't on there either! Our system generally works.

My mind reading skills obviously need a refresher course nandg

tanith Fri 26-Aug-16 13:14:16

Someone put this on their FB page the other day I thought it was very apt and true but OH didn't see the funny side of it..

www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1_QTm-wpsY

you might have to cut and paste the link..

Mildred Fri 26-Aug-16 16:36:50

Tanith brilliant

Indinana Fri 26-Aug-16 16:42:37

We do exactly the same as Ana. It's a magnetic board on the fridge, with a tear off shopping list pad (i.e. long and narrow). We have got into the habit of adding items from the bottom of the page upwards, instead of the more usual top down - this way if one of us is nipping out for something we can tear off the bit that's written on and leave the rest of the page for next time!
And we're both responsible for adding things that have run out.

kittylester Fri 26-Aug-16 17:00:35

That is good Tanith

Indinana, we are both responsible too!

Greyduster Fri 26-Aug-16 17:46:05

Can't wait to show that to DS - he can show it to his boys!!

Maggiemaybe Fri 26-Aug-16 18:10:27

I love that link, tanith!

I've just done the smallest online shop ever. I went to get our fridge list and it was totally blank. We always need fruit and bread, so never bother putting those on the list. It might all have something to do with me over stocking on a big scale last week for the family all coming round on Sunday. Oh, if only it were always so easy.

KatyK Fri 26-Aug-16 18:31:45

Mine uses the last of something (tea bag, biscuit or whatever), fails to mention it and leaves the empty packet in the cupboard. He uses up his deodorant and then says 'I haven't got any deodorant' usually when I've just come back from the shops having asked him if there was anything he wanted and he replied 'no'. confused

tanith Fri 26-Aug-16 18:50:42

I just knew that you ladies would enjoy it wink