Oooh, I quite like the idea of being obscure, NanKate! Makes a change from being called obtuse! My username is in memory of my darling girl, who was terrified of dragonflies all her life. One day, when she was ill and had little left except hope, a dragonfly flew into the house and landed on her outstretched hand. From that moment on, she said, she lost her fear of dragonflies and of death. They became 'her' symbol of faith and hope, and at her funeral lots of people wore clothes or jewellery with dragonflies on. Her best pal even had one tattooed on her arm.
Folk still give me dragonflies - garden lights, jewellery, paintings, scarves; it's our way of keeping her with us.