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Men asking questions from another room!

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BrandyGran Tue 11-Aug-26 10:55:42

AIBU? My husband never seems to learn! He asks me questions all the time from another room. I can’t hear him although I am not deaf. I have told him multiple times to come to where I am but no he still calls from another room. Rant over!!!
I heard Harry Rednapps wife say the same years ago.

Tworedroses Tue 11-Aug-26 11:01:14

Haha I know. Mine does it all the time. It’s very annoying.

Oldnproud Tue 11-Aug-26 11:41:51

I know too. My OH does this.

What most annoys me about it is that he is very hard of hearing now, so even if I can hear him, there is no way he will hear my reply!

What I haven't worked out yet is whether he 'forgets' that he won't hear my answer, or if he actually expects me to get up and go through to whichever room he is in.

Whichever it is, it is frustrating, though almost certainly as much so for him as for me.

Marg75 Tue 11-Aug-26 11:47:07

Oldnproud I could have written that myself!

MollyNew Tue 11-Aug-26 11:48:52

Same in our house! Drives me potty. I'm expected to get up and go to wherever he is. I keep telling him to book a hearing test but he just smiles. He'll happily go to the opticians but won't admit he's hard of hearing.

Mollygo Tue 11-Aug-26 11:54:05

I hear DH when he does that, but my selective hearing decides whether I want to respond or do as he’s asking.

Nannee49 Tue 11-Aug-26 12:09:36

It's not only men....DD has the exact same habit and even shouting back to her "No, Can't hear you" is no deterrent.

She says it's while the query is on her mind so she doesn't get distracted & forget what she was going to ask, which is fair enough I suppose but still very annoying.

SpinDriftCoastal Tue 11-Aug-26 12:59:05

I do that. I pose a question to DH and he answers: I heard you say 'Fred' and then it sounded like nnnnnnnnn.

TerriBull Tue 11-Aug-26 13:22:27

We both do it! Guilty as charged grin The stupid thing is when shouting from another room, we almost know the likelihood is the other person won't hear, it's a sort of idiotic hope that they might glean the gist. My stock answer to o/h when he's doing it to me is "no didn't hear any of that just a noise" Damn cheeky of me really, given I do the same grin

Labradora Tue 11-Aug-26 13:22:35

My OH does this but occasionally I do it !!!

David49 Tue 11-Aug-26 13:35:39

My wife does it all the time, definitely not a male trait

AweSum72 Tue 11-Aug-26 13:37:27

yep but im guilty too

Jaxjacky Tue 11-Aug-26 13:52:50

Hand up here as guilty.