I know what you mean Greyduster but I think she feels that it would be lovely for somebody else to take charge of things for a change, as she has been doing this for most of her life.She has no illusions about his nature, but he will be kind to her and generous, and to her family.There is also the social expectation that a woman isn’t complete until she is married and the status that comes with it, especially to a very wealthy man.Plus she wants to have sex with him ( that always helps) 
Anyone else struggle with this?
Support and friendship for those whose lives have been affected by estrangement.


