my grandaughters other granny owns and runs nursing homes so she spends a lot of time with the elderly ,she is brilliant with them.When her great gran thought she had lost her house keys K told her to "keep calm Nana ,if you had them when you came out you'll have them now ,you haven't opened your bag so it will be in the bottom of it" K is 7 she doesn't get phased when people or animals die as she knows that its part of life and she knows that "old people" sometimes do strange things ,like the old man in the home who set fire to himself with birthday cake candles...he wasn't burned just upset and she could see that he didn't understand why it had happened.She lights up the life of a lot of the old people she sees there .Its a great idea to socialise little ones with the elderly ,they both gain a lot from it