Yes, her time of life and family circumstances certainly can be a key issue. On a slight change of subject, this morning on Victoria Derbyshire they were discussing scamming on online dating sites, and one lady said even though friends had warned her that she was being conned she didn't want to listen because she was enjoying ' the moment', even if her online lover was nothing more than an organised gang trying to dupe her. I suppose if you are lonely, even in a relationship, when someone thinks you are still an interesting, sexy woman it just makes you feel you are actually attractive again, and not on the rubbish dump of life.