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A World Without Downs Syndrome

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overthehill Thu 06-Oct-16 16:36:37

Did anyone see this?
I am in the very fortunate position of not having a family member with this condition. Sally Philips the actress who presented this would not like my comment as she has a son with Downs whom she loves of course and wouldn't be without.
Science is coming near to screening with a 99% accuracy of determine whether your baby you're carrying is affected or not. This Sally doesn't approve of.
My view would be life is tough enough without a disability so if the test is there use it.
What wasn't mentioned by Sally was did she have the test herself before her son was born but chose to carry on with the pregnancy and also did she have the test or not for her two subsequent pregnancies.

SueDonim Sat 08-Oct-16 12:05:35

Iceland isn't a very good example, I don't think. Their entire population is only 300,000 so they will have very few cases of Down's diagnosed per year. If there are, say, three cases of Down's in a year and all decide to terminate, then that is indeed a 100% rate. But if one mother decides to keep her baby then the rate changes to 66%. Iceland isn't a big enough sample to be significant, I don't think.

2old2beamum Sat 08-Oct-16 10:47:52

Do not know what happened there. I was trying to say many couples want to adopt specifically Down Syndrome babies/children when we adopted our 3 we were amongst 5-6 approved adopters fighting over the childrensmile

2old2beamum Sat 08-Oct-16 10:41:40

(Sorry) each child

Anya Sat 08-Oct-16 09:24:47

You can't 'wipe out' a condition like Downs. It's not like the 3-parent mitochondrial situation where future generations will not carry the faulty genetic material.

Children will continue to be conceived with an extra chromosome and decisions will have to be made. No parent should feel coerced into having a child with a genetic condition when an alternative exists - to abort while at the gestational stage.

Neither should any parent feel coerced into aborting if they want their baby.

LullyDully Sat 08-Oct-16 08:38:20

It is an awful choice to have to make, I can not get away from that thought.
Having taught a range of children with Downs I am under no romantic illusions that all are cute , funny and talented. However a choice at an earlier stage of pregnancy is an improvement. How can you have a termination as late as 27 weeks when younger premature babies struggle to live at that stage?

The mother's description of her termination was horrendous and I didn't think that happened so late. I was.shocked and probably somewhat naive.

The youngest mother of a Downs girl,I knew, had been 18 and totally unprepared for her birth. The girl was also on the autistic spectrum and hard to get through to. When she grew older she discovered dance through the Birmingham ballet doing a project with her special school. A new girl.was born and a talent discovered for her, for that moment in time.

This is not an easy subject to be black and white about.

janeainsworth Sat 08-Oct-16 07:28:10

Bluebell you seem to be implying that Icelandic women are coerced into having terminations.
I agree that would be wrong.
I don't believe it happens in this country.

thatbags Sat 08-Oct-16 06:47:02

I hate it when people scoff at stuff like constant striving. Constant striving is what life, all life, is about.

thatbags Sat 08-Oct-16 06:43:44

Constant striving is also why fewer mothers die in childbirth, fewer babies die in their first year of life, fewer people die of polio, malaria, diphtheria, measles.....

You name it, deaths from formerly fatal diseases and conditiions have fallen because of our "constant striving". Perhaps it's not striving for perfection but striving to reduce suffering. After all, we'll never reach perfection as anyone with any sense knows, if only because life is a constant battle against other forms of life.

BlueBelle Sat 08-Oct-16 06:23:27

Janeainsworth I think it was a bit more than giving the mother a choice. Sally Philips looked at Iceland where the condition has been almost 100% wiped out and I believe the feeling was that it was a bit more complex than just offering the choice it wasn't made clear how Iceland had achieved this except that 100% of mothers offered the choice, had aborted Now 100% in any subject is blooming unusual so there must be questions as to whether there was a carrot and stick approach or some kind of coercion to 'help' these families ALL decide to abort

2old2 -a very good question

I think the world would be a sadder place without Downs this constant striving for perfection is our downfall

janeainsworth Fri 07-Oct-16 22:31:53

I didn't see the programme, but gather that Sally Phillips is against abortions that are carried out because the baby will be born with Down's Syndrome.
If we accept the basis of the 1967 Abortion Act is the woman's right to choose, I don't think we can say that a woman can choose abortion because she already has two children and doesn't want a third, or that she can choose abortion because she's only 17 and isn't ready to be a mother, but Downs, or other congenital conditions, are not an acceptable reason for a termination.
My personal feeling is that an abortion is a tragedy for all concerned, but I wouldn't deny any woman her right to make that choice for herself.

thatbags Fri 07-Oct-16 20:47:37

Yes, good post, eloethan.

If we were any other species individuals that were not viable as independent adults (singly or within a herd) would simply not survive. But we aren't any other species so it's complicated. I do find thinking back to Raw Nature helps clarify things a little bit for me. Not completely, obviously.

Whenever I see the thread title I wonder: "Would a world without Downs Syndrome really be all that bad?" Perhaps it would; perhaps it wouldn't. It'd be best if we could find a way to fix the genetic blip before it caused any problems.

DaphneBroon Fri 07-Oct-16 20:09:39

Typo!! A new FORM of testing - sorry!

DaphneBroon Fri 07-Oct-16 20:08:45

A calm and sane post Eloethan as you say it is a new firm of testing which has changed the possibilities for expectant parents. Nobody is talking Hitlerian eugenics but the very real choices open to them. Some of the conditions are very severe indeed, even if the baby makes it to term he/she may survive only a few hours, or may be so severely handicapped that they are dependent on full nursing care for the rest of their lives, almost certainly dependent on a succession of surgical procedures and without any hope of a life approaching what we might regard as "normal".
We are not just talking about handicapped children either, but adults who may never be able to live independent lives. Our cousin's daughter , now in her 30's has swum in the special Olympics and is at the "better"( for want of a better word) end of the DS spectrum, but she will never be able to earn a living or live independently, she has no siblings and a mother well into her 70's.
The thread, like the TV programme while prompted by the issue of the "new " test has IMHO moved on to a more emotive and emotionally charged area.

Nelliemoser Fri 07-Oct-16 20:07:33

2old2 A very good point indeed.

Nelliemoser Fri 07-Oct-16 20:06:26

Back at the very begining of the 1970s I was was working in a care facility for children with learning disabilties.
There were two children with Down's syndrome who were not severely affected and in terms of care they just needed the sort of support a rather younger child would have. No major "behavioural" issues which some of the other children did have.

One residents father was the local GP. This would not happen nowadays but there was no good reason why that boy needed to be in residential care.

The 11 yr old girl should not have been there either, she was fiesty and funny but she had been placed there presumably because the parents could not "cope". (with the idea of a disabled child) rather than her behaviour.

Very few parents get away with "dumping" their disabled children nowadays unless their behaviour or care needs are so difficult to manage that the whole family suffers. Actually these days it's hard for parents to get any decent respite care for children with very intense care needs.

I also encountered a boy with Downs syndrome whose parents were Greek and then there was quite a big family stigma about "imperfect" children in the family. It was considered this might affect the families ability to make a good marriage in future with that "condition" in the family.

I hope people are more enlightened now.
Fortunately there is a lot more adoption of disabled children going on.

2old2beamum Fri 07-Oct-16 19:13:10

Can anyone tell me why it is legal to kill a baby in utero but if I get motor neurone disease I cannot ask someone to help me die and they risk prosecution!

Anniebach Fri 07-Oct-16 19:07:25

Screening for cleft lip? .dear God , what next, deafness?

Luckygirl Fri 07-Oct-16 19:06:42

I declined all tests when I was pregnant on the grounds that, even if a problem was found, I would not have a termination.

Eloethan Fri 07-Oct-16 18:59:14

Downs Syndrome is being discussed at the moment because there is a newer test which far more accurately predicts whether a baby has Down's Sydrome. This means there will be fewer women who will need to undergo the amniocentesis procedure which carries a small but significant risk of miscarriage.

It is not only Downs that is screened for. Looking at the NHS site, I see that there is screening for spina bifida, sickle cell anaemia, thalassaemia and other haemoglobin disorders, anancephaly, open spina bifida, cleft lip, diaphramatic hernia, lethal skeletel dysplasia, Edwards Syndrome, etc.

Some of these conditions are less serious and can be treated at some stage but others may cause death in the womb or shortly after birth, or profound physical and/or mental disabilities and a much shorter lifespan.

A mother can decline the tests if she wishes. If a baby is found to have one of the more serious conditions, a mother is provided with full information and counselling as to whether she wishes to continue with the pregnancy. Some women will choose to have the baby, others will choose a termination. I think it should be wholly the decision of the parents since they are the ones that will have to possibly spend years watching a child having painful and invasive procedures. Throughout this, they need to stay strong for their child and to cope with all the day-to-day practical difficulties and emotional turmoil that having a seriously ill child is likely to cause. Parents without external support may also have no option but to concentrate on a profoundly disabled child, at the expense of another child or children. I am sure the majority of parents do not opt for a termination without a great deal of soul-searching and sadness but it must have that choice because it is them and their family who will be affected.

Anniebach Fri 07-Oct-16 18:52:54

How lovely to read positive comments on people who are by many considered unfit to live

SueDonim Fri 07-Oct-16 18:44:14

Downs because it's the most common congenital condition but I believe the new test also tests for Edwards syndrome & Patau's, too, which are incompatible with life. sad

2old2beamum Fri 07-Oct-16 18:17:31

Oh BlueBelle how right you are, we also have a DD 11 who has Emmanuel Syndrome and life is hard, she has severe learning disabilities only lives for the moment. She has numerous medical issues including x2 infusions /week.
As you rightly say Downs is relatively minor in comparison

BlueBelle Fri 07-Oct-16 18:07:04

What I d like to ask and no one has picked up on in is why Downs? Or is Downs just the first of the problems to be targeted There are other genetic problems that can cause a mother or family to have huge difficulties with bringing up a child

Someone pops up with one issue of a Downs young man who was difficult and violent to his mother, but that means absolutely nothing, it could be the way the young man was being brought up or he may have had other problems as well as Downs My neighbours Downs son also has Autism although he is a delight but you really cannot build a picture up on one young mans issues

Many families face huge pressures bringing up children a child with ADHD, Autism, a blind deaf child or a child with any major health problems ..... just because we can predict a health issue should that baby be killed just to make it right in case it's difficult later on Don't we all have to take the roough with the smooth I have a friend who had a perfect baby she was a headmistress a lovely lady a good family who gave their child a very good upbringing that child turned into a drug addict that has given the family the most terrible time no one could predict that

What I m trying to say is Downs might be the least of the problems a family could face why target it

Deedaa Fri 07-Oct-16 16:34:45

When I was a teenager I knew a couple who had a gorgeous little Downs grandson. He had been handed over to them by their daughter who had always worked with special needs children. Presumably she felt it was more than she could cope with at home.

When I worked in a Sainsbury's cafe we had a Downs girl who used to come in once a week and clear tables. Once she'd been shown what to do she was very efficient and she turned up on time every week, which was more than some of the staff could be bothered to do. As far as I can remember she wasn't even paid, but just did it for the experience. There were some days when we really couldn't have coped without her and I was very touched when she gave me a Christmas card which she had written herself.

2old2beamum Fri 07-Oct-16 15:04:32

As a mother of three now adults with Down Syndrome all adopted so genetically unconnected. They are all lovely people, kind and thoughtful. Every week they put money in a box (about 2 pounds) and at Christmas decide what charity to give it to. We can take them anywhere from a little cafe to a 5* hotel. They have travelled the world with us. The 2 girls have voluntary jobs (L helps the elderly) These lovely people have enriched our lives. Yes they have health problems (heart, lungs, epilepsy) but they enjoy life, would hurt no one.
Anniebach I have never heard of a Downs killing any one mine even carry spiders outside to stop me hoovering them up!